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HerJourney21 59F
4214 posts
4/15/2022 7:46 am
I like it this way!

I see so many writings and blogs about the M/s relationship and how it should be. I find the relationship I have with Mistress may fit in some of those scenarios discussed but I think there is no real true definition. Sure, there are plenty of games and orders laced with pain, punishment and pleasure but that is just a small part of it. We talk about daily activities, we talk about food, and a variety of everyday things. I always know that she is the Mistress and respect her position but there is a very deep connection. To be honest, we have created the M/s relationship that works for us and I like it that way.



Artschoolgrad 47M
8851 posts
4/15/2022 7:48 am

so awesomely wonderful!


HerJourney21 replies on 4/15/2022 7:49 am:
thank you, Art, I'm very lucky

bipantyboy63 61M

4/15/2022 7:57 am

Beautiful and near perfection


HerJourney21 replies on 4/15/2022 8:42 am:
thank you

slaveforyou365 63M  
4528 posts
4/15/2022 8:21 am



Slave rick


HerJourney21 replies on 4/15/2022 8:42 am:

casio26 63M
2576 posts
4/15/2022 9:17 am

I am happy for you.
I'm still searching Who knows, maybe someday.
Dave


HerJourney21 replies on 4/15/2022 10:01 am:
it will happen when you least expect it

palinax 59M
124 posts
4/15/2022 9:21 am

Good for you. You got the jackpot. Enjoy


HerJourney21 replies on 4/15/2022 10:01 am:
i definitely hit the lottery

rondiri 65M
11198 posts
4/15/2022 9:35 am

THAT is what I try to accomplish and want again. The BDSM is always there, wrapped tightly around the, for want of a better description, "vanilla" day-to-day activities of every day life.


HerJourney21 replies on 4/15/2022 10:02 am:
you're so right, ron, it's always there for Mistress to pull out when she wishes

Moon54shadow 70F
52 posts
4/15/2022 10:02 am

The deep emotional connection is the hallmark of a D/s relationship at its best. For many of us, it is what drives us to keep seeking ... Congratulations on doing the work it took to create such a bond.


HerJourney21 replies on 4/15/2022 10:03 am:
thank you so much for the kind words

ExNameForUse 54F
5766 posts
4/15/2022 11:41 am

You know already how happy I am for your happiness, HJ, but I will keep telling you that whenever I have the chance... A soul as yours deserves nothing less


HerJourney21 replies on 4/15/2022 5:00 pm:
you are so very sweet!

RobertBishop 66M  
2156 posts
4/15/2022 12:14 pm

A lovely photo, made special by the sub's metal collar, wristlets and anklets.


HerJourney21 replies on 4/15/2022 5:00 pm:
i love this picture! Thank you, RB

rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
4/15/2022 12:54 pm

It is like fitting all kind of jisaw puzzle pieces to gether, and make it fit for the both of YOU!
There is no one way, fiits all.
Different pieces for different kind of dynamics D/s, relations, for different kind of needs and wants too....
Just as it fits you both!

I am soo very happy, for both your happiness!


HerJourney21 replies on 4/15/2022 5:01 pm:
thank you, rosa, it is! We love doing puzzles!

ridermantel 68M

4/15/2022 9:32 pm

I can feel the bond.


HerJourney21 replies on 4/16/2022 7:58 am:
it is there in plain view, rider

jenny14 75T  
90458 posts
4/16/2022 12:53 am

H

As you say, there is so much more to a relationship , than just BDSM! There is a shared connection even, if as you say, one person is always in charge....both must be free to express an opinion...


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


HerJourney21 replies on 4/17/2022 9:36 am:
we have the relationship that works for us!

davinacambs 61T  
861 posts
4/16/2022 12:16 pm

Loving the rings on neck, wrists and ankles - good girls get rewards, but bad girls may get punished and if that involves some confinement then so be it.

A lovely picture showing Dominance and submission in one simple view.

D-J xx


HerJourney21 replies on 4/17/2022 9:37 am:
thank you, davina


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