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Thoughts on objectification I hope this sounds less like an academic paper but here goes with a new blog. And PLEASE I would love hear what you think. I have had a guilty secret since way back , I realised I respond some particular usually embarrassing situations in a sexual way, but a different sort of arousal There experiences have included being treated roughly, being talked about ( in sexual terms) as if I wasnt in the room, and all the many ways men have treated me as a "collection of body parts" not a complete person. The list goes on and on. And with each experience the usual sudden quiver of arousal Then I began chatting on Alt, and also reading other stuff. I learned that objectification is an established understood aspect of a submissive nature. Now in conversation, in experimental on line scenes and looking back at episodes in my life I can recognise what triggers that so different convulsion of arousal. The very way men talk about "using" me is the start, "nice tits make a great milk cow" it goes on . In an on line scene when the man has finished he says "anyone else want her holes" I just pray someone wants me. I will add these thoughts as I examine my self - and others G xx |
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8/27/2021 11:54 pm |
The mind is the biggest erotic zone thoughts can be so powerful xx
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8/28/2021 12:37 am |
Its great that you have started with your blogs again Geri and trusted us with your sexual interests. Objectification and other forms of humiliation are a turn on for a surprisingly large amount of people {mostly in secret} and that includes myself. I hope you add to this blog over the coming days and beyond.
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As you find out more about being yourself in this lifestyle you develop your own personal skills and likes. This goes against what most people think about and have never considered. A sub I know has been running away from her own self by getting involved with everything she had a small interest in to keep her vanilla. But with the pandemic shut down and nothing to do she's been opened up with a new self confidence and worth. She's getting piercings done this weekend because she wanted them years ago but never had the time. A good dom leads you to where you want to be. It is never about bullying or manipulation just offer advice.
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i enjoyed being used as a sexual object. I went over to a guy's house a couple of weeks ago, and even before i took my boy clothes off, he told me i was not to cum. He told me where to lay, what to lick, what to suck, all along telling me how nice my ass is. He did enter me with his cock safely, but eventually, had me lay with my head over the edge of the bed sucking on his balls. He blew his load all over my chest, handed me some paper towels to clean myself up and he told me it was time to get dressed. i was leaking precum throughout the whole session
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The mind is amazing and whatever make you happy, do. Right or correct or whatever you want to call it to be done to you is for you to decide. And have fun, life is too short. Explore more!
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The sexual words used, stimulate the brain and this is reflected in your arousal; the extremes of eroticism can create the strongest arousal. It is often driven by the need to feel truly wanted and needed as a sexual person hence the feeling you expressed "I just pray someone wants me". When the need reaches its peak it can over ride any internal governors we may have developed so far. It is oh so powerful! It can be scary and addictive at the same time. I'd be interested to hear any other thoughts you may have.
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I totally get and understand objectification. There has to be safe spaces for a sub to simply bail out of the situation. But there also has to be an environment where a sub can fully and safely emerce one self in. For example..on alt the one time this lady advertised for a " dog".. The male slave would go to work like every other male. But once home he would strip and assume the role of household pet. And i assume it wasn't role playing. The male is treated as a dog w food bowl,on all fours,kennel,leash,etc Which at first thought may seem " odd"...quickly changing to quiet arousing due to the objectification And given the proper time to breathe and get comfortable. The slave may decided to take this desire from fantasy to reality to fulltime. I for example would enjoy being treated as a pet/ trained to be a dog. In your case your desire could easily be fullfilled by simply having men online comment on your pics.. It's easy to fish for comments like..great tits..i'd love to suck on those nipples. But as you advance it would be fun to do something like take you to a playparty and simply have you undress/ remain naked before groups of people. And eventually you may wish to take the fantasy and make it a reality..having multi people use you sexually. But the trick is to keep you wrapped up in a safe space as you explore this desire..maybe your new reality. And whereas being a dog may seem a bit out there...objectification as a slut/ a piece of meat/ something to not only be used sexually.. But desired😄 Is quiet normal.. And easy to hide from society...you dont even have to identify as being into bdsm... Whereas being on a leash...would be hard to explain to the neighbors..lol
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I wish I could have you arrive at my workshops, visiting for business purpose... but soon I lead you into the main working area, my 7 employees all look at you in your suit.... as I lead you into the centre of the workshop floor, we all circle around you.... start telling you that you need to earn the right to do business..... 8 pairs of workers hands begin to tug at your clothes.... steering you toward the 10 foot square bench that is about to become your place to be used, abused and enjoyed by me and my 7 employees........ Mmmmmm Just how many cocks can use you at once..... how much of that body will NOT be dripping with hot fresh cum...... are those udders going to be feeling sore.... the questions go on......
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A most-interesting look inside a more-common-than-thought fetish. You open yourself through the restraint and "coverings" of the objectification. I will read it again and possibly more. I don't want to miss an idea, a fact, a fancy, or handy information. Technically, it needs a bit of polish. That isn't hard for an editor. The hard part was generating the story, Geri, and you do that well....smiles
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It's a learning process for both sides of the equation. Dom/Master to help and the submissive to expand their self awareness.
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Thoughts of an Objectification scene or scenes. I would hand the submissive a sensory deprivation hood, then lock a collar about her neck. Depending upon my whims, her eyes, ears and mouth would be open or closed. I would also wear a hood. Play would be primal in nature. and of my choosing. Each scene would progressively nudge our primal objectification boundries. At the end of play both hoods are removed, returning to more of a sensual mindset.
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I would say that both the wish for humiliation and objectification is present in every submissive - but to very different degrees. And it is such a broad topic that two people talking about it probably don't mean the same thing. For me personally, both are a "play of the mind" instead of a physical thing happening to my body. It is not the "act" itself, so to speak. And those, for me a certain intimancy and connection is needed to make it "work for me". Maybe that's the reason why I've not any good experience with humiliation or objectification here on alt and am mostly disappointed, trying to avoid the topic in play. I'm glad that you've found ways to enjoy yourself, though.
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It is very pleasant for a man to focus in like that. The objectification and use off "my own" sub is a doms best friend. The MY sub espcially...
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