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DmSmCouple 63M/50F
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6/21/2021 6:48 pm
What We Live By


DEFINING DOMINATION AND SUBMISSION

Domination and submission is the acknowledgement of the normal human way of life of dominant personalities leading, guiding, training, and protecting submissive personalities in daily life activities. This life is meant be constructive not destructive; in other words, it does not matter what form of kink, , control, and humiliation/objectification etc. is being used, once all is said or done all parties involved come out of this stronger, healthier, mentally and physically than without being in this life. Anything else is abuse and the people involved are fakes and wannabes.

TERMS AND DEFINITIONS:

Master/Mistress: Leadership in the DS world, they are the ones responsible for the protection, training, leadership, and growth of the slave/submissive. They live this life 24/7 and have mastered themselves and their lives first. They understand the phycology of the DS mindset and cannot only explain these concepts other people but can also explain their vision of what they are seeking others.

They are responsible for the mental and physical and wellbeing of the ones that submit them in direct relation that submission given. This is also what gives them the right the service that they require of the ones that submit them.

DOM/DOMME: These are the ones who are primarily interested in the kink aspects alone and not living the life 24/7 as who they are. They do incorporate some rituals protocols etc. into their but do not do so daily. Their responsibilities mostly are involved in preparing slave/submissives for and their wellbeing after . Not anything dealing with daily life rituals etc.

TOP: Is merely a person who likes to use sex toys, floggers, canes etc. on other people. That is the extent of any type of control. They love to use the toys and except for their responsibility of safe they are not responsible for the domination control of slaves/submissive/bottoms. There are many people who enjoy using toys on others that are slaves/submissives/bottoms but that does not make them dominant.

BOTTOM: These are individuals that like to have sex toys, floggers, canes, etc. used on them, whether on a consistent basis or just occasionally. This does not necessarily mean they are a submissive personality, it just means they wish to receive that experience.

SLAVES: These are persons who serve their Master/Mistress without restrictions beyond human survival. Needless to say, this the ultimate in submission and trust and this should never be given lightly. It is said that for a true slave the last and only decision that they are able to have is; who do they surrender too.

SUBMISSIVE: These are persons who serve but must retain some level of control of their life or, are unable to perform some sort of kink/sexual activity their Master/Mistress/Dom/Domme require. These individuals are still able to serve deeply and passionately they just need to withhold some things for themselves.

THE RULES WE LIVE BY

1) The Master/Mistress of the House is responsible for the mental and physical wellbeing and safety of the slave/submissives under their control the direct amount of submission given.
2) The Master/Mistress will know the minds of the submissive/slave better than they do. They will determine what traits enhance, get rid of, or develop new.
3) In return for rules one and above the submissive/slave will come learn the Master/Mistress’s mind and needs. They will not only follow all instructions, orders, and protocols faithfully they will learn to anticipate their Master/Mistresses needs even without orders.


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