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What would it be like to be your slave? I have been asked many times what it would be like be My slave. The short answer is “I don’t know” because everything ultimately depends on the chemistry between two human beings. This is a basic outline of how I envision daily life and some of my thoughts on BDSM. Everything is subject change or adjustment depending on the outcome of My search or My whims. DAILY LIFE The main goal for my household is a peaceful, calm environment. Think of it as an oasis from the storm. slave will use protocol when speaking with Mistress unless otherwise instructed. slave will have its own sleeping area and not be allowed in Mistress' suite unless instructed. slave will bring Mistress a beverage when She wakes up then wait for instruction on the day. slave will give foot massages, pedicures, brush & dry Mistress' hair, bathe or help her shower and attend to her basic grooming as appropriate. slave will keep the house organized and clean to Mistress' specifications. This includes dealing with repairs or people working on or in the home. slave will be responsible for maintaining Mistress' vehicle and will serve as chauffeur when she wants to go out into the world. When in public slave will deal with store clerks, cashiers etc unless Mistress needs to step in. When in public slave will never allow Mistress’ hand to touch a filthy door knob or handle and will open doors as she approaches. When in public slave will be polite and courteous and mindful of the fact that it is a representation of it’s Mistress. When in public slave will always have Mistress’ safety and comfort as it’s first concern. ATTITUDE slave’s attitude is EVERYTHING! I can’t stress this enough. Negativity will not be tolerated. That includes self-pity and<b> jealousy. </font></b>Slave will be given instructions on the proper way to address any negative feelings or thoughts so they do not fester and undermine the household. Speaking of attitude Male Entitlement can be a big hurdle. Yes that term is thrown around all the time but it is an issue I have experienced even when dealing with men who identify as slaves and sissies. Mistress understands how deeply ingrained male entitlement is due to society and will work with slave on eradicating that ego-driven compulsion. PUNISHMENT It will never be what slave wants or expects. SAFEWORDS My opinion of safe words is that they are for play parties or when you do a scene with a person you don’t know. Therefore I do not allow safe words as they are a method of topping from the bottom. LIMITS I will respect hard limits that are specific to physical limitations or those which may trigger memories of past trauma. I will not tolerate petty limits that are nothing more than an attempt to garner control. If control is what you seek you are not a slave and we are not compatible. © 2021 CatCityLady |
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I like it. It's as if we want the same slave LOL 1bigfungi at gmail - John
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8/1/2021 8:06 pm |
you know what they say "great minds"... lol
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Mistress you certainly know how to treat your slave. This one would like to know you better if it is deemed worthy of your time. Thank you mistress. Sub Danny
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That's a list anyone could understand.....it's getting someone to actually read it is most likely going to be an issue.
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8/2/2021 2:36 pm |
I'm not the least bit concerned if they can't or won't read they won't be My slave.
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8/2/2021 2:40 pm |
dommestoy you may send me a private message.
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Thank you mistress the slave has sent you a mail message on here, hope you can read it. Thank you Danny
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