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The difference between a submissive, a slave, an a bottom. If I have a pair of boots and I want them shined, an I give them to a slave she will shine them exactly as I want them. If I give them to a submissive she will shine them as well as she thinks is good. If I give them to a bottom she will throw the boot at my feet and tell me to shine them my f..... self and then she wait for her beating. They're all different . . If you don't know which one she is . . ask her to shine your boots. |
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3/24/2022 5:21 am |
Don't break her spirit, enjoy it.
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Well h... I think that applies to most... Not one who shined her own boots for her job though! ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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3/24/2022 5:54 am |
Knowing is doing. And doing means doing it right.
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Perhaps she is a Domme if after you ask her to shine your boots she puts one on and licks your ass?!
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I think it depends on the individual, not the label put on them
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I think it depends on the individual, not the label put on them The type of submissive you are defines the label, not vice versa.
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What she calls herself or identifies has nothing to do with her mindfulness or self awareness. In this life one must know and act with full vigor for it to have meaning.
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I like the picture, and the story too. I know submissives calling themselves slaves, (because that word makes them feel horny) but they make the rules of the play, the when, how and where.. . I know bottoms who are more submissive then bottom And i know slaves who are just into the game playing, role play... and i know submissives, who dont like the word slave, for historical reason and are slaves, anyway, in their demeanor, mind set. I would love to shine his boots, the way he taugh me too. If that is a fetish of him. Wanting to please, be of service, wanting to make him proud, make his life easier, is in my eye, one aspect of wanting to be his slave. Boots or no boots not submissive, not bottom. Just my thoughts on this matter.
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6/18/2022 7:43 pm |
Are we not all slaves to an extent? The Dom/Master is a slave to his sub/slave by ensuring he is teaching, punishing (when needed), pleasing (emotionally, psychologically, and physically) and making sure there is open communication? A sub/slave is also ensuring open communication, trust, learning what is taught, taking punishment (when required to learn what is being taught), pleasing her Dom/Master? Both are attempting (if it is a true BDSM relationship) to strive for the same mutual needs and desires, yes??? In that sense, both are working towards reaching the others expectations and to do the others' bidding.
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