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pomonagirl909 47F
280 posts
1/12/2024 12:49 pm
Dreams


Blog to follow in first comment.

Thanks for reading!

pomonagirl909 47F
165 posts
1/12/2024 12:50 pm

When i was just starting things with my Sir, and everything was so full of excitement and discovery, i was chatting with one of my Kinky BDSM Lifestyle friends about it all.

She is very experienced and has led an amazing life (both in Kink and Vanilla). So i believed her when she said, "If you play your cards right, all your dreams can come true."

So very much has happened with Sir since that conversation with my friend. Good things, awkward things, challenging things. Intensely satisfying things. Surprising things.

With time, trust, respect, willingness and communication...maybe all my dreams WILL come true.


BDSMbedroomslave 46T
105 posts
1/12/2024 1:23 pm

A Dom you enjoy the company of, is like having a job you enjoy doing.

We have a saying here in the UK, that its easier to get a new Job, if you currently have a job.

I've found this relates to Doms too. Its easier to find a Dom, when you already have one.

I've gone a couple of years, having my time wasted 2-3 times a month looking for any Dom, I'd settle for just ONE to turn up let alone one I can enjoy being with, regardless of someones take on whom should get the enjoyment of Master/sub interaction. My last Dominant and myself split for medical reasons, on their part, but replacing them with a new Dominant in my life, has been next to impossible, especially as it seems all I get are talkers who'd rather have content pics, than content.


pomonagirl909 replies on 1/12/2024 3:09 pm:
interesting!!! i wonder if someone who is taken (either by an employer, or by a Dominant) is somehow more attractive.

uncommon1 66M  
1438 posts
1/12/2024 7:49 pm

Its easier to find a Dom, when you already have one.

There is truth in that it's easier to
find what you want when you know
what you're looking for . . But then
knowing what you want can narrow
the possibilities.


pomonagirl909 replies on 1/13/2024 9:13 am:
There is a lot of truth in that. i feel that way when it comes to dating now that i am older and have less tolerance for bs/know what i want more.

RobertBishop 66M  
2145 posts
1/12/2024 11:08 pm

Ol' Blue Eyes sez:

Fairytales can come true
It can happen to you
If you're young at heart
For it's hard you will find
To be narrow of mind
If you're young at heart

You can go to extremes
With impossible schemes
You can laugh when your dreams
Fall apart at the seams
And life gets more exciting
With each passing day
And love is either in your heart
Or on it's way

Don't you know that it's worth
Every treasure on earth
To be young at heart
For as rich as you are
It's much better by far
To be young at heart

And if you should survive to 105
Look at all you'll derive
Out of being alive
And here is the best part
You've had a head start
If you are among the very
Young at heart



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