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pomonagirl909 47F
280 posts
1/24/2024 10:11 am
Personal Ad: Pomona, California, No Long Distance, Relocation or Online Relationship


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pomonagirl909 47F
165 posts
1/24/2024 10:11 am

Currently Looking For, In Pomona, California (NO Long Distance, Online or Relocation):
i identify as being somewhere in the Ethical-Non-Monogamous/Open/Poly relationship-spectrum and am currently involved in a D/s relationship with an amazing Dominant. He wants me to be happy and fulfilled, and to seek out play in safe and positive ways.

In this spirit, i am always looking to meet quality BDSM Lifestyle Dominants, Tops & Sadists for sessions and possibly a relationship. Although i am straight...when doing casual/non sexual scenes, sexual orientation and gender is not as important as if i like you, respect you, and feel like i can easily communicate and trust you.

i am primarily seeking partners who are experienced with things like Floggers, Riding Crops & other Impact Toys, Bondage, Sensory Deprivation, Sensation Play, Building a Scene and Negotiation. i strongly prefer to play with people who have (or actively) attend events like Classes, Play Parties, Dungeons, Munches, Discussion Groups, etc. i love to bottom for scenes, and if i am in a relationship/Dynamic, i also love things like Protocol and Service.

Things i am currently open to, with the right people:
--Open to non sexual/casual, negotiated BDSM play scenes at some of the Dungeon Clubs around Los Angeles (or in private IF i trust you)

--Open to going on dates with men who really capture my interest (i do not drive more than 10 miles for a first date or first meeting)

--Open to a deeper relationship involving some level of Kink/BDSM

--Open to saying hello if you ever happen to see me at a Kink/BDSM event. i LOVE to meet others at events, it's so much easier for me than trying to ascertain mutual interest online.


casio26 63M
2563 posts
1/24/2024 12:04 pm

Wish I lived closer.
Hope you find someone


RobertBishop 66M  
2146 posts
1/24/2024 12:14 pm

Good luck!


MrBcHeteroSwitch 71M
20 posts
1/24/2024 2:18 pm

I just wanted to comment on a post you did a few weeks ago (as I don't know if people who post get notified about replies, and time had passed while that post lingered in my mind).
I also loved as someone quoted, the "hug" of the ropes and bindings. As a "switch" I enjoy that feeling too (uh, when I get the chance). And I agree with a commenter about the additional experience of feeling the hug insist while you resist. Just trying to move has special sensory input. And knowing what it feels like, observing it is fun too. About whether trying to escape (as was requested of you) is much different than moving about in the "hug" I can't say, but it seems likely that knots and buckles etc are generally out of reach of fingers. Lastly, I'm curious about that choice of staying "in the hug" rather than obeying the command to resist. Any reflections on that? Thanks!


pomonagirl909 replies on 1/24/2024 3:09 pm:
Thank you so much for your comment!

As far as obeying his command. We had just met at a Munch (social event) and all went back to the hosts house to hang out a bit more. Getting tied up was a spontaneous thing that happened and it was all very extremely casual and friendly. It was not a play scene and there was no power exchange going on.

i think he told me to try and escape because that was his experience with other rope bottoms (he was pretty new at being a Dominant and being a Rope Top).

He was not offended when i told him that i wanted to stay in the tie for a while. Everyone enjoyed watching the transformation of my face and body language as i relaxed into it.

i think it was a good experience for him as a newbie Dom and Rope Top and a good experience for me as well.

After that day, he and i developed a practice relationship. We would get together fairly often and he would practice rope and flogging on me. We also went to a few classes on impact play together.

rydermantel 69M
25407 posts
4/22/2024 9:19 am

I used to live out there. The sun was always shining.



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