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pomonagirl909 47F
280 posts
2/7/2024 11:21 am
Why go to a Munch? You can get to know other Kinksters as Whole People.


Context: A Munch is a Social Event, usually held at a restaurant, cafe, bar or pub. It is NOT a play party, sex party, orgy, speed dating or hook up event.

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pomonagirl909 47F
165 posts
2/7/2024 11:22 am

Something that's always stuck with me is learning that Munches are a way to get to know other Kinksters "as whole people".

Yes...we all want to play, we all want partners, we all want certain experiences. But when you take your time and get to know people AS PEOPLE, not just a fetish list or a body to lust after, you open up the possibilities to hopefully have better and more well informed experiences.

Why do YOU go to Munches? Or if you have never been, why not?

More Writings on Munches, Events and Safety:
https://fetlife.com/users/7620563/posts/9826915


ff_jsstand 29M
1 post
2/7/2024 12:05 pm

good to know.


Coprolite 73M
38 posts
2/7/2024 12:30 pm

Unfortunately alt has nothing like that. About the only option you have is to join a competing website f e t l I f e. They have an events area that filters events by range from your location.


meltwill2 72M
3827 posts
2/7/2024 5:50 pm

We have members of the group host the munch at their homes or if a lot of people have signed to come maybe a restaurant with a private meeting area. The name of the group will be something very mundane such as Computer Gaming Group. Also in public attendees are asked to not wear fetish items. After the munch is over there may be another gathering at a members house with invite only. If at a private home everyone brings different food, dessert, drinks....nothing formal just meet, talk, get to know some others. Fetish wear allowed but all are asked not to flaunt it at the neighbors lol. Maybe a few games even a demo or two depending. The one everyone waits for every year is the Xmas party with the white elephant, dirty santa, kinky gift exchange. It's a lot of work setting one up but a hell of a lot of fun.


Uplead2Bused 70M
11 posts
2/11/2024 1:57 pm

Events calendar would be very useful but a night mare to cover all the area of all the members on this site . Country state/Country /City needs to be done professionally .



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