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Lunar New Year Play Party It was so fun going to SAKE (one of the Dungeons close to me) and get flogged & paddled on a St Andrews Cross in a Jail Cell! Perhaps a bit anachronistic, but hey, i'll take it! my friend Grail did a great job. Although he is not new to attending events (play parties, munches, classes) he IS new at playing. Since our first practice session earlier this month, he has been practicing at home with his floggers and it showed. (He is the person i wrote about in my recent entry, "A Unique Opportunity To Give Back"). We got there early in order to be able to get a nice area to do our scene and avoid the crowd (noise and distractions). He did a great job and the few times he made slight mistakes, he noticed and corrected himself. He communicated with me a lot and, after a warm up, was confident enough to give me harder strikes in between the more mellow ones. He also used different floggers as well as a "sensation stick" i had gifted him (a long wooden back scratcher which is fun, stingy and versatile), my Bat-Crop and my leather paddle. He decided to end the scene after a while when he noticed his aim was getting a bit off. While in aftercare mode, i told him at that point, he could have repositioned me if that would have helped. (There was a bench/bed in the cell, too). He hadn't thought of that. Repositioning the bottom can be a useful thing during a scene for many reasons: the Top is able to have access to different areas of the body, as well as have different angles for striking. It can be fun to use different positions within a scene to create a more full, varied experience. But, overall, i am glad that he chose to end the scene when he was starting to feel "off"---this is part of a Top's responsibility to not play "over their level", in order to help mitigate risk of a mis-strike landing somewhere bad. Later in the night, Grail also told me a bit about his perspective of the scene. How it is so different to have to be paying attention and focusing on what he is doing. How, when he went to choose a different implement, he likened it to choosing a different paint brush or color to apply to his "canvas". Creating art. Conducting a symphony. Leading an experience. All things that us bottoms and subs love our Tops and Dominants for! We were also able to meet up with a lovely young lady who had messaged me a few weeks ago on fetlife. She is brand new to BDSM and attending events and was so nervous to go to her first play party! But by the end of the night she was smiling, laughing, observing scenes, talking with all kinds of people, and hugging her new friends goodbye. It really is amazing how, for a group of people that like to hurt each other, we are generally pretty friendly and mellow. Thank you Grail for the fun, relaxing, exciting and cathartic scene last night. i really needed it. i hope that you enjoyed the experience as much as i did.
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...and a good time was had by all!
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Glad you enjoyed!!
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