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pomonagirl909 47F
280 posts
3/10/2024 1:53 pm
how lucky can one girl be: one night, two dungeons


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pomonagirl909 47F
165 posts
3/10/2024 1:53 pm

i hesitate to call myself "lucky" because i am where i am due to my own choices, priorities, courage, work and perseverance.

But yesterday was one of those lucky days where i got to spend time in not just one, but two Dungeons.

"From the Mountains to the Beaches" says some California Tourist Brochure somewhere, probably. And yesterday it was an absolute privilege to travel from Serenity Studios in Riverside all the way to 910WeHo in West Hollywood.

i hadn't planned it that way: i had already committed to attending 910WeHo with a Dominant friend of mine. But once i saw the listing for Sir Ezra's "Mindfucking Mindfully" class at Serenity scheduled for the same night, i just couldn't pass up the opportunity to hear his presentation and take the opportunity to say goodbye to him as he makes the move back to the east coast.

PS, if you haven't read his book, it's worth checking out.

After the class presentation i had to rush off to prepare for the play party at 910. Fueled by tacos, caffeine and good music, my friend and i headed back onto the freeway, westward bound this time.

We had a great time at the play party. my friend is a member of a Leather Family and they all were in attendance. Plus some other of our mutual friends. It was a new experience for me, going to a party with a friend group.

A lot has changed for me---is changing for me---and i am looking at WHY i attend play parties...why and in what circumstances are they worth it for me.

So the different experience of going with a group, of doing a scene with my friend, of running into other friends. Of having a long, meaningful conversation with someone i know through another munch group. Of seeing a new friend all wrapped up in her play and intimate space with a partner. Of seeing some people that i admire in their element and with their best foot forward. Of having the experience of going to an all night diner with the Leather Family & friend group after the party.

A part of me...still just misses the Lair and the pre-covid momentum i was gaining there. A part of me still pines for that place and those days.

But last night was good, too. i can't relive the past but i can go forward with an attitude to embrace new experiences, new people and new connections.

If "luck" isn't just a series of coincidences that ends up in a good situation...If "luck" is positioning yourself to end up in good situations...

Then yes, i am lucky indeed.


Want2Playin416 66M
26 posts
3/10/2024 4:35 pm

Sounds like you are enjoying the journey and the experiences you are having wonderful.


rydermantel 69M
25407 posts
3/11/2024 7:13 am

March 17 approaches. Stay lucky and find your pot of gold at one end of the rainbow.


RobertBishop 66M  
2146 posts
3/11/2024 12:35 pm

How lucky can one gal be?
I spanked her and she spanked me.
As a fella once said,
"Ain't that a kick in the head?"



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