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Demanding Week. So after a grueling demanding week of tasks and reprimands, more tasks and then be told "e; you didnt give it a go" , i made the decision to walk away from said person. I wished him well, and hope that he finds someone, but that someone would not be me. here to enjoy my journey, not be made a miserable emotional mess and be made feel guilty about it. So in my best Pauline Hanson voice ( for all those Aussies out there )... I don't like it. Chin held high and moving forward |
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It takes awhile to find the right person, dont give up keep trying but most of all have fun
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yes it is hard to be told that yo did not d something especially when you know you did. good for you to walk away from such a person you are going to find the right one for you
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Hi there, I happened upon your blog entry and thought I'd say hi. So, hi! I just wanted to say (without knowing anything about you or the actual circumstances of the relationship) that I think you did the right thing. There's no reason why there shouldn't be anything but monotony and personal degradation (of the PERSON, as opposed the sub), in a relationship of power exchange. In fact, there's no good reason why it shouldn't be FUN, or why a sub shouldn't receive as much pleasure (subjectively) as the dom, sexual gratification and orgasms aside. Submission is hard, really fvcking hard. No matter how naturally the desire to submit comes, there is still a mountain of social, psychological and biological pressures that you have to overcome. And then, even in a 'perfect' relationship, there is still the constant mental discipline and control over the physical body required of the submissive. IT'S HARD. And we don't ask for much in return, and usually not even out loud. Just some occasional praise would be nice, a little affection, and, the biggy, to feel safe and protected. But when a dom demands everything yet doesn't take the subs needs into consideration, it's probably time to walk away. This can't be easy, because when you're constantly being derided and humiliated, one's self-esteem can, and will, slip away very quickly. I'm positive many people just never make it out of some toxic, one-sided, relationships again. And my heart breaks for them. To think that life has already fvcked someone over (we aren't submissive for no reason, and it's usually some psychological childhood trauma that's to blame), only for it to continue until a person loses everything, is just the sickest of jokes. Always keep a sanctuary for that inner YOU, light an imaginary candle and honour yourself for a minute each day. Remember that you are an equal partner in any relationship. And this equality is self-evident and ALWAYS true - because half a relationship is only one person, and therefore no relationship at all. Your submission is a precious gift, it shouldn't be completely ignored, at least not for too long. Power exchange is give AND take, and it should flow both ways - it's an 'exchange', after all! Anyway, just needed to get that off my chest I suppose, sorry if I sounded heavy! 🤦🏻♂️ Wishing you a great day, and all the best in the future. I really hope that you find the ONE that you are looking for! Sincerely, Simon X 💋 "But he was still hungry" -The very hungry caterpillar 🐛
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1/26/2022 3:06 am |
It seems the word "Compatible" is a foreign language. I find people who try to impose their will on you do have any will themselves. Example... When you point your finger at someone else you have three pointing back at you. Moral of the story is ... Take a good look at yourself and what you bring to the relationship. Not to mold the other person into your fucked up life. One thing I always ask myself is.. In a long term relation you are lucky if you can get a couple hours a day in the bedroom. What are you going to with the rest of your time.??? At my age I look for how to share love and happiness in the whole day not just the orgasm.. Ps. Look for a person who says WE and not ME...
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1/26/2022 3:14 am |
a task should be a comfy thing for you to do its clear you were not ment to be with the guy well done
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Thank You all for your replies.... i know i did the right thing by walking away, even when it can be one of the hardest things to do.
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you did the right thing this life is challenging at times though it should be fun and respectful as well. Enjoy your day.
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2/12/2022 5:41 pm |
Good for you. You made the right decision.
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