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DaddyDom/littlegirl???? I been away from the lifestyle for 20 years raise my from age 3 23. 20 years ago, I just DON'T remember this DD/lg Dynamic. Now, I know 's not the as what I did raising my , but I just can't wrap my head around this dynamic. Especially as I've just watched my move out on her own. Every time I at information about these relationships, I keep asking myself, How the hell do you mix BDSM and being a figure? seems uous. I suppose 's a bit easier when the submissive is older. But are many younger submissives that are looking for this dynamic too. I know are some on the blogs that life this dynamic. I could use an explanation from both sides of the dynamic if they wouldn't mind. |
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Any help understanding this dynamic would be appreciated!
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I will be the first to say I have not been in this type of relationship rondiri. Like you my curiosity was aroused. So I read a few books on it. Where the couples lived 24/7 in this dynamic. Seems pretty hard to duplicate in real life. But I think it's a adult submissive who releases their inner child. Through specific and different age groups. Dressing, acting, mimicking how a child of that specific age would act. The Dom controls everything about his little. With sexual aspects woven into their relationship. The submissives just enjoy reliving some or all of their childhood. Maybe they never had one. For whatever reason. The Daddy Dom feels like the end all be all for his little. And he will do whatever is necessary to protect her. As he lets her play to her hearts content as long as she follows Daddy's instruction. But DD and little know they are adults. There are no uous thoughts from either. It's complicated. And it's really hard to explain by a novice such as myself. Hopefully somebody who lives the dynamic will give you more clarification than I did... Good luck. ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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I lived this as a 24/7 many years ago over a period of 6 years. The difference with mine was there was no age play, she was 20 years my junior, and her parents, while not bad people, weren't particularly good parents. Through a number of circumstances I won't get into now, she ended living in my house as a form of refuge. She was emotionally in need of a father figure, and I became that. One thing lead to another and we ended up in a relationship, which still maintained a father/daughter dynamic. I put her through college and basically took care of her needs during that time. I helped her get away from the party drug scene and some of the poor decisions she was making through that, watching her mature into a strong and confident adult. While I'd delved in kink previously, it was she who introduced me to bdsm, she was quite intellectual and emotionally developed in that relm. The time came when it was right to part ways, something neither of us wanted, but she needed the opportunity to find someone to spend the rest of her life with. I'm happy to say, she found that person. To be able to find and develop another relationship like that is highly improbable, but I hold on to hope. As for the whole little thing, I understand the reasons behind it, but I don't understand the emotional side of it. I doubt that I ever will, as getting involved in that dynamic would make me feel dirty. I am VERY protective of children, it just wouldn't feel right in my mind.
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3/2/2022 9:27 pm |
I have never understood "Daddy Dom" and I have never even seen a good definition or explanation of it. My only experience with it was a submissive my age who used to want me to call her late at night and tell hr bedtime stories. And at which time she kept calling me her daddy. I did not understand why she was calling me daddy and she would never tell me why. And she had a super intellect. I did not like it and I ended that relationship. Nobody seems to be able to explain it.
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It's not my kink but I think no_unicorn hit the nail on the head.....it's a type of roleplay and usually between older submissives.
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