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rondiri 65M
7312 posts
7/22/2022 8:45 pm

Last Read:
7/23/2022 3:48 pm

Did you know that the BDSM Community has their own symbols?

Symbol explinations in comments



rondiri 65M
11202 posts
7/22/2022 8:45 pm

The first 5 icons were designed by Tanos in 1995, and used by The Slave Register
The designs were meant to have a clear symbolism to their meaning, but not an obvious meaning to anyone outside the BDSM community.
Most of us know the Triskelion, but do you know the meaning in the symbolism?
The number 3 is the focus of the Triskele
First there are 3 “legs” that meet in the center. These “legs” have 3 meanings.
First you have BDSM: Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & submission and Sadism & Masochism
Secondly, you have the 3 part creed of BDSM: Safe, Sane & Consensual
Thirdly, you have the 3 participants of BDSM: The Dominant, the submissive & the Switch

What are the Yin Yang shapes?
They are meant to show how each area of BDSM, B&D, D&s and S&M are separate, but can easily crossover into one another. They appear the same but a distinctively different.

What are the holes in the Yin Yang shapes?
They are NOT dots. Think of the shape as a person in BDSM, the hole represents the void of something or someone that is missing, and the person is incomplete alone and since BDSM cannot be performed by one person, they need that hole filled by another in the circle. Either a Dominant, submissive or a switch. One needs another to be complete.

What is the outer ring?
It represents the border of the community, making in a unified Community. A containment of all lifestyle choices and the acceptance, respect and understanding we have for each other.

Ownership Tanos 1995
Popular with heads of Leather Families and Kink houses, that have multiple Dominants and submissives.
It signifies the rights held by the main Dominant in the house

The Shield Tanos 1995
Represents an Owner of a sub/slave
The Shield represents the Owner/Dominant of a sub/slave
The up pointing arrow represents a Male Dominant. The cross represent the Female Dominant

Owned Tanos 1995
The symbol of an owned sub/slave
The circle represents the collar worn by the sub/slave
The inner symbols represent male and female the same way as the Shield

Unowned Tanos 1995
The symbol of an unowned sub/slave
The broken square represents an unlocked/open cage or uncollared sub/slave that can be approached
The interior symbols again represent the gender of the sub/slave

Little Designed by Sully of Beautifully Bound 2016
The symbol of a little of either sex
The closed circle represents owned, and off limits
The broken square represents an unowned little that can be approached
The heart represents the soul inside a little.

Polyamory Unknown designer or date
The symbol for polyamory
The infinite sign showing the long lasting trust of all in the relationship
The Heart representing unconditional love by all involved.

Switch Unknown designer and date
Symbol for a Switch of either sex
The arrows showing the choosing to switch between Dominant and submissive
The heart representing a single being
Either person involved in the relationship can wear this symbol


UR_Fantazee 27F  
7057 posts
7/23/2022 2:10 am

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Interesting stuff. I wish they'd come up with something more creative than a plain circle with a wee heart inside for my status. I've no idea what I'd replace it with though - it's just seems.... um.... boring? xx

"People who think they know everything are a great annoyance to those of us who do."


rondiri replies on 7/23/2022 8:08 am:
I guess boring equals discreet.

ridermantel 68M

7/23/2022 4:52 am

Why would somebody spend time doing this? What is the purpose? Seems illogical to me.


rondiri replies on 7/23/2022 8:10 am:
So the community could show themselves discreetly, wearing the symbols as a pendant or tattoo, without the vanilla world knowing what it meant.

ridermantel 68M

7/23/2022 4:52 am

    Quoting UR_Fantazee:
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    Interesting stuff. I wish they'd come up with something more creative than a plain circle with a wee heart inside for my status. I've no idea what I'd replace it with though - it's just seems.... um.... boring? xx
Interesting stuff? I don't think so.


rondiri replies on 7/23/2022 8:11 am:

brandygirasol 55T
9437 posts
7/23/2022 6:33 am

Very informative, Ron😊 ... the switch doesn't need to exist in my bdsm world I detest a switch YUCK🤮🤮🤮


rondiri replies on 7/23/2022 8:12 am:
Not my taste either, but to each their own.some just can't settle into one role.

drmgirl622 68F  
26189 posts
7/23/2022 7:33 am

Interesting.......


rondiri replies on 7/23/2022 3:45 pm:

UR_Fantazee 27F  
7057 posts
7/23/2022 1:10 pm

rondiri replies on 7/23/2022 4:08 pm:
I guess boring equals discreet.
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Thing is, that circle with a heart inside design can be bought in any jeweller shop or online already - it's not unique enough to be a valid symbol of recognition. It's really only someone's nice idea of one unfortunately. xx

"People who think they know everything are a great annoyance to those of us who do."


rondiri replies on 7/23/2022 3:47 pm:
All of these are available at online stores. The little one was, you are right, not unique enough and probably caught on in the vanilla world.

UR_Fantazee 27F  
7057 posts
7/23/2022 1:24 pm

    Quoting ridermantel:
    Interesting stuff? I don't think so.
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Oh. If you don't find it interesting then it obviously shouldn't be interesting to anyone else? My mistake rider.

For the record, I found the fact that someone had taken the time to come up with the idea, the symbols and the definitions, interesting.

The designs themselves - not so much.


"People who think they know everything are a great annoyance to those of us who do."


rondiri replies on 7/23/2022 3:48 pm:


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