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Keep in mind... Lazy day, no article today  Even a BDSM relationship works both ways. The Dominant and the submissive both have many responsibilities to each other. |
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If you want everything to be done for you, it's not a BDSM relationship. That's a greedy, selfish relationship. And that isn't what BDSM is about.
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Nice Pose Ass Up Head Down...😎
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Ooooooo His Excellency The Baron💋 ... Bless His Heart❤️❤️❤️
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rondiri, Once, when i explained how i saw a d/s, 24/7, to this dominant?. his reaction was; Oh, no! Thát is wáy too much work! Forget is! I was flabbergasted, Did he not know, i did a lot of "work"for this, too? That if He IS dominant, i (and we agreed we are compatible, beyond the bedroom games) I will do as he pleases... jUst because i agreed to do, so?! We agreed. to this dynamic with all the rules and responsbilities. That way of looking at a D/s was totall alien to him. Love the picture. 
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for me it’s a lifestyle not a passing phase or weekend fancy & it’s a 2 way street one doesn’t exist w o the other...ying & yang!
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My favorite point... A two way street! One way streets are too confining... they do not take everyone where they want to go
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Submissives require trust as well.
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Forgive my financial comment, but the larger the investment, the greater the gains.
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Nice Pose Ass Up Head Down...😎  Out of all the pictures I take of myself I have not done this position and it's my favorite for anal.
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I love that you guys use the word "doubt" as it is indeed a very powerful word that can be so healthy and yet, can be very damaging 
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Out of all the pictures I take of myself I have not done this position and it's my favorite for anal.
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I was told, once, by a man in the Dutch scene, or what ever that means? That most submissives have this tendency to overthink and that the dominant is the one, who can help them,overcome that overthinking. I know, i do, somtimes Most of the times, i can stop it, by being very stern to myself!  Tell myself; To stop this! But that has no long term effect. I believe the surrender to his guidance, his rules, his way, makes this overthinking less and less...
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rondiri, I dont think it is a bad habbit, it is just something submissives deal with. Calling it a bad habbit sounds so judgemental, in my ears. Overthinking does not have to be bad, an sich. I also would not call it a red flag, it is just part of the dna of a submissive, struggling with something, within.... I believe it is the stability of a dominant, that can help the submissive to stop this.... Be her rock. Just my thoughts about this...
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, so many that just don't get the full picture. They see a movie or read a novel and think that's all there is. 
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