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This is nothing but my opinion and experience about why people like oral sex in BDSM. For guys receiving, no matter how much you enjoy humping your hips during vaginal or anal intercourse, it is just so relaxing, (until climax at least) to just sit or lie back and enjoy the movement on your manhood. Let’s face it, there is a reason regular sexual intercourse burns so many calories. It takes a lot of energy to do all that humping. Receiving oral saves the energy use until the very end for guys. For guys giving oral, it is a wonderful thing to do for your partner. To let them sit or lie back and relax and not have to do any work for their climax. Sure you could use your hands instead, but the lips and tongue do a much better job and is more welcomed. For the women receiving, well, very few women can climax from vagina penetration alone. Again, yes, you can use your hands and fingers, but using your mouth is a whole lot more sensuous and welcome when giving clitoral stimulation to get to the climax for her. For woman giving, I’ve found that they either love it or hate it. For those that hate it, it’s a gift to their partner. For those that love it, it’s a gift for both partners. (And if it’s in 69 it’s REALLY a gift to both partners!) I know, I didn’t mention gender fluid or trans or nonbinary. Please just plug in in whichever role you see yourself fit in. I’m not discriminating or judgmental, I just don’t have that experience with those orientations. Now for the BDSM side. For Dominants receiving, can there be a more Dominant position than having your submissive performing oral sex on you? Whether holding their head, or lacing your fingers in their hair, or putting pressure on the back of their head? For Dominants giving, (yes, Dominants can give oral sex), it can be as a reward, or just a way to tease and edge, or just because you like the responses you get from the submissive while you drive them crazy. It doesn’t make you any less Dominant, and if the submissive is restrained, you are really in the driver’s seat. For submissives that receive, can there be anything more satisfying than your Dominant giving head for you? Taking the time to bring you to climax in a way that allows the submissive to sit back and enjoy? For the submissive giving, it’s the opposite of the Dominant receiving. A total show of submission to pleasure the Dominant without them having to expend an energy. Performing just the way they want you to for their satisfaction. As a side note on 69 from a male view with a female, I’ve always found that the more aroused you get your female partner, the more zealous she gets. I don’t want to assume, but I would guess the same would apply to any partner, so show some zeal yourself to get more zeal. As I said at the top, this is just my opinion based on the women I’ve been with. Nothing scientific or statistic based. If you disagree, feel free to let us all know how you think it works or has worked for you. © 4/10/23 Ronald Dirienzo
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Oral...mmmmmm I have a few guys that come over every once in a while for oral. Luv it 
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getting - something about kissing while someone fondles your tool... and giving, is very sensory, the tongue, the lips, the taste, the scent... almost overload...
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I enjoy discussions with the little man in the boat Being there when the big waves cum In those time, my company is enjoyed When I .talk with the little man Always glad to see me, knowing it is going to be a good day
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4/11/2023 4:05 am |
i am pretty sure that everyone KNOWS how i feel about giving oral. (If not just glance down at my tag line.) i am sometimes asked why i Love sucking Cock so much. There are two answers to that, The first is, "i don't know. i just do." It would probably take years of "therapy" and thousands of dollars of Psychologist fees to figure it out. And i'm not going to go through all that because i just Love it. So why change? The second answer is because it involves ALL my senses. I can taste, smell, feel, and see the objects of my affection (His Erection and balls) and i can hear His encouraging words and/or the noises He makes in response to my ministrations. That makes it a total sensory experience rather than a limited one like all other sex (or BDSM) acts. For the Real Man in the room, as you say, He can sit back and enjoy. By not expending all that fucking energy, He can recover and be ready for "round two" quicker. Plus, He can do whatever He likes while i do "all the work." (Not that i consider it work. If i enjoy it, it isn't work. Right?) He can watch TV, read, have a meal, make a phone call, or listen to music. If another person is present, He can even carry on a conversation. For me, Sucking Cock, (or as i refer to it "Making Worshipful Love to The Man's Cock and Balls with my hands and mouth) is a win-win situation. The secret to enjoying life is Loving what you do. When i am on my knees with a Real Man's cock in my mouth, i LOVE Life!  My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do. 
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We are all a bit different... I love giving oral sex- but I never receive oral sex. I love getting fucked- but I don't fuck anyone. I only have sex like a female. I'm not versatile and I only date straight acting TOP Alpha Males- no others need to apply. No gay men or CDs or beta males thank you. Only exceptions I ever make are for Dominant Females. I'm a submissive sexually who only gets with Dominant type people who never even consider "switching" because they know who they are just like I know who I am....☺️
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