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Blogs > rondiri > My thought's, fun and fiction

rondiri 65M
7312 posts
4/11/2023 1:47 pm

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4/12/2023 9:50 am
Who ends what

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rondiri 65M
11202 posts
4/11/2023 1:48 pm

 Many people get the wrong idea about BDSM dynamics.
Yes, a Dominant can end a scene or a dynamic at any time, BUT, so can a submissive/slave. (no matter what title is used)
Some get the wrong idea from fiction. Others get the wrong idea because they are lied to.
One thing NO ONE should get wrong is that a submissive/slave CAN end a scene or a dynamic at any time.
If a submissive/slave ever hears that a Dominant is the only one that can end a scene or a dynamic, they should run from that person if it is a perspective Dominant, or ignore that person if they are giving advice. They are lying to you or are ignorant of what consent is all about.
A submissive/slave can end a scene or a dynamic at any time for any reason whatsoever.
Let me repeat that:
A SUBMISSIVE/SLAVE CAN END A SCENE OR DYNAMIC AT ANY TIME FOR ANY REASON WHATSOEVER!
There is NOTHING short of being restrained by force, that can stop a submissive from leaving a scene or dynamic anytime they wish to. Don’t ever let anyone tell you otherwise.
Abusers and predators will lie and tell you that after consent or when you sign a contract you are legally bound to stay with them. If you hear that, RUN! It’s not true anywhere.
A submissive has to give consent for a scene or dynamic. A submissive can revoke that consent for any reason and the Dominant must comply or they are breaking the law in any jurisdiction.
If you are forced to stay in the scene, that is abuse and unlawful restraint.
If you are forced to stay in a dynamic, that’s called kidnapping.
Don’t be fooled by fast talking so called dominants.
Learn and know what your rights are before you enter into any dynamic agreements.
A submissive only serves through their consent and the strength of their trust and commitment. If they lose their trust in a Dominant, or their commitment to the Dominant, they may revoke consent and leave.
It’s a human right, and cannot be taken away in a BDSM dynamic of any kind.
© 4/11/23 Ronald Dirienzo


brandygirasol 55T
9437 posts
4/12/2023 4:36 am

 Well I've encountered a couple DOMs I wished I hadn't met😵..... Trying to resist and STOP during play was too scary and risky setting off the DOMs temper😡.... So no choice but to continue until the DOM was finished with me then I'm out of there resolved to never be alone with that guy ever again... 😥


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