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Why should a submissive submit? Article in comments |
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It’s not because a Dominant Demands submission. It’s not because a dominant commands submission. It’s not because a Dominant forces, coerces or manipulates submission. It’s not even because a dominant wants submission. A submissive should only submit because THEY want to. Only when they are confident in the Communication of the Dominant. Only when they are confident in the honesty of the Dominant. Only when they are confident in the trust they have in the Dominant. Only when they respect the Dominant. Only when they are confident in their SAFETY with the Dominant. Only when they are confident the Dominant will put the submissives best interests FIRST. Choosing who to submit to is not an easy process. It takes time to accumulate all these “only whens”. And that is on top of the time it takes to learn about the lifestyle enough so that you can work towards accumulating the “only whens”. Knowledge, patience, good vetting habits and negotiating with resolve can help keep you safe from harm. Cutting corners for the sake of gratification more quickly opens you up to possible trauma. Your life is too precious to take chances with. Submit only when… © 4/14/23 Ronald Dirienzo
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Agreed!
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Bravo! Well said again!
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Because it's WHO WE ARE ....as long as it's the right guy or gal... Ha☺️
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makes sense - but there's a part of it that says: I would not submit to a, or b, but c there I would submit.
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By nature I feel attracted to be sub of my mistress
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4/16/2023 4:35 am |
Why should a sub sub? Why should a Dom Dom? Fish gotta sing, birds gotta swim. ... Or something like that. One should only sub if it is part of one's nature. The same for a Dom. If it is all just an act, the experience becomes a hollow mockery of what it could/should be. i have had males who claim to be "switches but mostly sub" offer to play with me. i always say, "Thanks. But no thanks." If his heart isn't really "in it" neither one of us will be happy. My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do. 
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4/20/2023 4:14 am |
i probably did mis the point. My poor old sissy brain has a hard time understanding complex concepts. You need to "dumb down" your posts for idiots like me.  A friend of mine used to have a sign in her kitchen that said, "Simplify." A sub needs to be able to trust the Dom and the Dom needs to be trustworthy. It seems to me that most of your posts boil down to that. The specifics will vary with each set of participants. n'est-ce pas? My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do.
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