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Blogs > rondiri > My thought's, fun and fiction

rondiri 65M
7313 posts
5/28/2023 3:17 pm

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6/1/2023 3:25 pm
Dynamic and self reviews

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rondiri 65M
11200 posts
5/28/2023 3:17 pm

 Every so often, partners should do a review of the dynamic. This should be an opportunity to speak freely about the dynamic and what each partner feels is going right and going wrong, as well as anything either partner might want to add or change about the dynamic.
This is not to say that problems and concerns can’t be brought up at any timeay with more than her triggers but setting aside time to hash out everything as a review can be beneficial to strengthening the dynamic.
Not everyone is comfortable bringing issues up on the fly and might feel more at ease sitting down in a review type atmosphere.
Every so often I do a self-review of what I am doing and done as a Dominant.
Because I have a submissive with triggers, it can sometimes be a fine line between avoiding those triggers and pampering her. I have to review if I am letting her get away with more than her triggers and becoming too soft with her.
In the same respect, because I like to spoil my submissive and she’s a brat that will ask for things she wants during play, I have to review how I handle her requests and whether I am allowing her to lead me, instead of me leading her.
Self reviews can also entail how you are progressing in skills you need, how you are applying those skills and whether you are being to aggressive or too soft.
Can you think of anything else you can review in the dynamic or about yourself?
© 5/28/23 Ronald Dirienzo


brandygirasol 55T
9437 posts
5/28/2023 6:08 pm

 Mmmmmmm I used to get away with plenty but NOW my DOM boyfriend doesn't take any sass from me at all zero zip nada nyet nothing..😳


rondiri replies on 5/29/2023 3:26 am:

BssMan63 61M
95 posts
5/28/2023 6:34 pm

 It is good for one to take a review of their life from time to time. Not only of their own life but those of who they effect. It tends to reset perspectives and goals and may lead to better being aware of one's self and surroundings.

John


rondiri replies on 5/29/2023 3:26 am:

rydermantel 69M
25891 posts
5/31/2023 11:08 pm

 An apple a day is still good food for thought.


rondiri replies on 6/1/2023 3:25 pm:


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