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6/13/2023 1:11 pm

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BIG red flag in groups

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6/13/2023 1:11 pm

In the BDSM lifestyle there are some simple expectations. Like following rules.
Every Facebook group has rules.
No messaging without permission.
No Friend request without permission.
Are the big examples.
So, why would anyone think a Dominant or submissive would obey the rules of a dynamic, or adhere to limits if they can’t obey the simple rules of a Facebook group.
If you are messaged, friended or asked to send nudes within the first messages, the person is going to trample any other “rules” that might be set up for a dynamic. IF they are real at all and not just fishing for attention and nudes.
Scammers often ask people for pictures so they can use something other than porn star pictures or their real picture in a profile or to send. So when you send you picture, make sure it’s when you know the person well enough to trust, or you might find your picture all over the internet labeled as a scammer.
Don’t rush things. No respectable Dominant will ask for unsolicited friendship or for pictures right away. It’s a sign of disrespect and all of us should want to be respected right from the start of a conversation.
Don’t hesitate to inform your admin team about unwanted messages and friend requests. The person sending them is breaking rules and isn’t worth responding to. Every group will remove and ban the person.
Don’t hesitate to block someone that asks for pictures right off in a conversation or pressures you to send them before you are comfortable. They are showing no respect and aren’t worth your time to try and make it work.
If people can’t follow rules in the beginning, they will break them all the time.
© 6/13/23 Ronald Dirienzo

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