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When things get busy in life, the Dynamic doesn’t have to suffer article in comments |
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Whew. I haven’t had much time to write lately. Before Courtney moved in, there was plenty of time. After she moved in, it was still take it a bit slow, AND she was working. Now things are in full swing, she’s working overtime and a million other things are going on… OK, OK, dozens of things. Life has a way of throwing curveballs at us when we would rather everything go smoothly. But just because things become hectic and there isn’t as much time to do some of the things in a dynamic that you would like to do, doesn’t mean the dynamic has to suffer. Stick to the protocols, for one. Sure, one or both of you may be more fatigued than normal, but sticking to basic protocols keeps us in our proper frame of mind in the dynamic. Secondly, do your level best to try and spend quality time together. Go for an ice cream cone, or just a walk in the evening to be together. Even watching a movie together is better than saying you don’t have time, or are too tired to spend quality time. If you have to cut corners, tasks are where to cut. Sooner or later, they will have to be caught up, but give priority to what needs to be done in life, quality time together and getting the proper rest to actually survive the hectic pace life is throwing at you. And most of all, give your partner the support they need to get through the rough patch and hectic times. If you are a Dominant, you WANT to see your submissive strive to do the best they can in a busy life, so help them out. Make dinner for them, do a load of laundry, take them out for dinner. Give them a breather and support. If you are a submissive, you WANT to help your Dominant withstand the fatigue of extra responsibilities life might be throwing at them. Don’t slack off because your Dominant is busy, make them an extra special dinner, massage their neck a little longer, Do a few of the Dominant’s chores around the house for them to ease their load temporarily. Dominants and submissives don’t HAVE to stop a dynamic, or pause, take a time out, or suspend the dynamic just because things get busy. You are still who you are to each other. You just have to adapt to the speed of life at the time. © 7/25/23 Ronald Dirienzo
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Yep, the ones of us that have been there know full well with which that you speak. Taxing to say the least.....sometimes just not enough time.... I don't see how you get the time to put your blogs together.....it's tough!!!  
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When the D/s or, rather, the M/s dynamic is at the core to your relation. It IS the core, and from that, you make things work. adjust to reality of day to day living. Nobody ever said, it would be easy, things easy attained, do not hold their value very long....
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