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rondiri 65M
7312 posts
8/1/2023 2:11 pm

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8/2/2023 3:29 pm

Flash vs a Solid Foundation


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rondiri 65M
11202 posts
8/1/2023 2:12 pm

There are things that show how good a Dominant is.
A fancy dungeon, money and fancy suits are not among them.
Don’t get me wrong, I’d love to have the space and the money to have a fully stocked dungeon with lots of furnishings and a huge variety of implements. But having those things… and the ability and /or money to build them/ buy them, DOESN’T mean the Dominant that has the money and owns the dungeon knows how to be a Dominant.
While how a Dominant presents themselves is important. Expensive clothing and good looks doesn’t mean they know how to properly treat a submissive or have the knowledge to properly use anything they own.
In-depth knowledge, caring attitude, empathy and patience are just some of the important things that show a good Dominant.
Too often a novice will see pictures of a full Dungeon, be lavished with expensive dinners and gifts and think they have found “Mr. Grey”.
But truthfully, in 50 Shades of nonsense, Mr. Grey was anything but a good Dominant.
Money and dungeons may be impressive, but if the submissive isn’t going to be treated properly, if the Dominant lacks the knowledge to a healthy lifestyle dynamic and safety, the submissive is better off with a dirt poor but knowledgeable Dominant, that will care for the submissives safety, health and wellbeing.
So, when vetting Dominants, ignore the flashy cloths, dungeons and money. Concentrate of what the Dominant knows, their experience, their patience and their concern for the submissive’s safety and wellbeing.
The brass ring of finding a good Dominant, often isn’t made of wealth and gold.
© 8/1/23 Ronald Dirienzo


Artschoolgrad 47M
8874 posts
8/1/2023 2:42 pm


rondiri replies on 8/2/2023 3:27 pm:

meltwill2 72M
3830 posts
8/1/2023 2:54 pm

likewise


rondiri replies on 8/2/2023 3:28 pm:
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JohnnyLightning 65M  
9711 posts
8/1/2023 2:58 pm

Mr. Grey 50 Shades of Garbage 🗑

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


rondiri replies on 8/2/2023 3:28 pm:
yup

rydermantel 69M
25981 posts
8/1/2023 4:23 pm

50 Shades was laughable and so typical of Hollywood's misconception of the lifestyle. I would not even say it was sanitized. They plainly had no idea of what they were trying to film.


boh99 68M
3172 posts
8/1/2023 9:04 pm

makes sense...


rondiri replies on 8/2/2023 3:29 pm:

brandygirasol 55T
9437 posts
8/2/2023 3:34 am

DOMinants that I've hooked up with rarely have a private dungeon but they always have a BAG OF TRICKS surprises and excitement I feel seeing a DOM laying side by side a half dozen flagellation instruments before my eyes😳then telling me to pick one for starters-and as I hesitate the DOM tells me again to pick one OR ELSE👿..... My kind of DOM❤️❤️❤️


rondiri replies on 8/2/2023 3:29 pm:


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