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Spoiling and being spoiled can get out of hand article in comments |
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There are plenty of reasons to spoil a submissive. From the Dominant simply wanting to spoil the submissive, to the Dominant feeling a need to spoil the submissive due to past traumatic experiences. But anytime you spoil someone, care must be taken that it doesn’t get out of hand. We all have limits. But it is very easy to forget limits when a Dominant sees the joy on a submissive’s face as they get spoiled. It can become a matter of what can the Dominant do to better spoil the submissive. Spoiling the submissive with attention is easy. But when it comes to material things, getting bigger and better can run into problems. Sooner or later, there’s nothing bigger and better. Likewise, it is easy for a submissive to get used to being spoiled and expecting more and more, even asking for more and more. It can become a vicious circle of giving and asking, giving and asking, over and over. The worst case scenario is that one or the other gets resentful. The Dominant for giving too much to spoil, or the submissive for not getting enough. This doesn’t mean it is bad to spoil a submissive. It just means it has to be done intelligently, patiently by the Dominant, and needs to be appropriately appreciated by the submissive. I like spoiling my submissive. She needed to know that not all partners were abusive users, out for themselves and that someone could give to her freely. Treating her as someone treasured. But I know I have financial limitations. Fortunately for me, my submissive understands this and greatly appreciates when I spoil her. Dominants, usually, have the onus of the financial spoiling. All we really want from a submissive to spoil us is their attention and obedience, not anything financial. But it also makes the Dominant responsible for some self-control on how much they spoil the submissive. © 8/20/23 Ronald Dirienzo
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It's important to take care of the submissive. I can get my pound of Flesh and help make real life a little easier. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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"But anytime you spoil someone, care must be taken that it doesn’t get out of hand." I have seen it time after time over the years.....the Dominant gave whatever she wanted but it was never enough. Then when it was made known there was no more to give, one went looking for a new golden hog trough. Sad but true......all things in moderation.  
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I appreciate and cherish everything Mistress gifts to me
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every action we take can lead to hope and expectations. good post.
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