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Insensitive and cruel disregard for others is how the dictionary defines callousness. By that full definition, I feel there is no place in the BDSM Lifestyle for callousness. There are times when a Dominant must be not quite as sensitive with a submissive. Meting out discipline must be done calmly and evenly, but still sensitive to the submissive’s capabilities, boundaries and limits. To consider all those things and more, the Dominant must have some sensitivity. While some forms of discipline are cruel by the thoughts of many, there are dynamics where cruelty is a basic part of the dynamic. But cruel disregard for the submissive is just plain abuse. The Dominant MUST have regard for the submissive’s capabilities, boundaries and limits and tolerances. This is why BDSM hookups can be dangerous. Without proper vetting and a knowledge of a partner’s attention to or concern for others, you can easily fall prey to someone that cares not about capabilities, boundaries, limits or tolerances, but only about their own pleasures. This is where submissive’s get harmed and traumatized. People who are callous CAN feign being kind and compassionate. It takes time to discover if a potential partner is compassionate or callous Alexander Pope stated “Fools rush in where angels fear to tread.” It means, people with little experience tend to rush into situations that people with much more experience will stay away from. No matter what your experience, take the time to learn about a partner before getting into something you may not be able to get out of easily. © 12/28/23 Ronald Dirienzo
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Another good read ron....you should publish a manual..... 
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yes, perfect.
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