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Something that happens often in the process of meeting a new partner is manipulation. It is something that must be looked out for and is considered a red flag. A Dominant should never manipulate a prospective submissive into anything. Manipulation usually occurs to conceal true intentions of the person doing the manipulating. People try to rush decisions with false reasoning, lies, criticizing and trying to place undue blame on another. They want to make someone do things out of character, hastily, and in the manipulators best interest only. They will use charm, coercion, supposed logic, withhold affection. Anything to make the person they are trying to manipulate to do as the manipulator wants. They will use blame and gaslighting to make the victim feel they are the problem that needs to be resolved by capitulating to the manipulator. A submissive should never be made to feel that they are or are creating a problem moving forward. A submissive should never be made to feel guilty that they are taking their time in making choices during vetting. Rushing should never be pushed on a submissive. Manipulation should never be used to get a submissive to ignore traumatic experiences for the Dominants pleasure. Is there some manipulation that is acceptable? Yes. Manipulating the senses of a submissive during scene play to take the submissive into sub space is actually a talent. It is acceptable because it brings the submissive pleasure. But it also requires the Dominant to be more vigil, since the submissive loses the ability to tell when things go too far. For that reason, some submissives may dislike sub space and prefer not being manipulated into sub space. They may want to stay in control of the faculties. A submissive should never be forced to do something they do not consent to, even sub space. © 1/9/24 Ronald Dirienzo
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