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Do you consider if your prospective partner, or your partner for that matter, is qualified to do what they will be doing or are doing with you? Do they have the qualities needed to be a Dominant or a submissive> Are they capable of using the implements for the various kinks they want to do with you? Can they withstand the use of implements you want to use with them in kink play? Many folks see a movie or read a novel and think, “That sounds great, I can do that”. They see the fantasy and think it’s so easy to recreate. They don’t consider if they have the mindset for the role they want to play. Whether they can follow thru with the responsibilities they will be taking on. They think it’s easy to wield a flogger, tie a partner, drip wax, BE flogged, be tied, have wax dripped on them, among so many kinks. Worse yet, they tell prospective partners that they CAN do things they have never done before because they think it’s so easy. Ascertaining the qualifications of a prospective partner is just one of the many important things we need to do when vetting. It a reason it take time to vet, why you have to be patient and not rush into a dynamic or play sessions. Even with proper vetting it can often be difficult to find out about another person’s past and their experience. And of course if they admit they are a novice, they have none to judge on. Even though we all have the responsibility to learn the ins and out of what we want to do in the Lifestyle, many simply don’t learn first, practice first. Some jump right in and flail away with a flogger, wind rope where they shouldn’t be wound, drip the wax too low, trust others to know how to do what they will do during play, trust others to teach and train the proper methods. In our Lifestyle we play in potentially dangerous situations. Knowing your partners qualifications, knowing YOUR OWN qualifications is important. Start slow and don’t rush. Start with low intensity, simple safe sessions and build over time. Rushing into full blown high intensity sessions could get you harmed or cause you to harm someone. It’s better to be a bit unfulfilled by a session while you learn, than regret the session ever happened. © 1/13/24 Ronald Dirienzo
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Good points Ron☺️.... Next time a DOM hits on me I will certainly ask if he's qualified to whip my sissy ass!... Ha👅
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bravo! yes. in the midst of Excitement it can be so easy to take on more than one can handle.
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Follow the teachings of Jesus.
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