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One of the biggest red flags in a person, whether in vanilla life or out Lifestyle, is Rage. Whether Dominant or submissive, the ability to control your temper is an important trait to have and to look for in prospective partners. Everyone gets angry about something at some point. It’s a natural reaction in humans. But acting out your anger/rage towards your partner can lead to very unwanted results in the dynamic. Even though a strong Dominant might be able to handle a submissive that lashes out with rage, eventually it can wear even a strong Dominant down and lead to the release of the submissive due to their behavior, no matter how much they say making up sex is the best sex, or how much the Dominant enjoy punishing the submissive. Attitudes matter. On the other hand, a Dominant lashing out in rage to punish or discipline a submissive is a recipe for harm and abuse, not the discipline or punishment that is intended. ANYTIME a Dominant is angered by their submissive or in a foul mood in general, they should put off any disciplinary action until the cool down. Rage/anger muddles the mind and prevents clear thinking, overrules the ideas of fairness and caring. Rage is an emotion that is so easy to let carry you away and control you. But with the inherent risks in our Lifestyle, we must all learn to control ourselves. A Dominant that cannot control themselves has no business controlling a submissive. © 1/14/24 Ronald Dirienzo
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1/14/2024 11:07 am |
Anger or rage is a reaction to a stimulus. It's up to you to how you choose to react to something or someone. No one makes you yell, no one makes you assault someone. Those are personal choices. IF you are unable to control your own emotions then you're incapable of exerting control over someone else.
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Another good one.......there should NEVER be any rage.....from either party.... 
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Another good one.......there should NEVER be any rage.....from either party....
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So much truth: "Rage/anger muddles the mind and prevents clear thinking, overrules the ideas of fairness and caring." the trick is realizing you are in a rage and stopping yourself before things get out of hand.
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