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Safe-Safeguard-Safety article in comments |
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Keywords to remember all throughout the BDSM Lifestyle. From beginning to end, vetting to breakups, being safe, safeguarding yourself, finances and future and the safety of your partner are extremely important. No matter how much we trust a partner or not, safeguarding ourselves should be the first thing in our minds. From the beginning, no one else is going to be more responsible for you while you search and vet, than yourself. You have to be in control of your own safety and take all precautions against risks. Once you choose a partner and begin playing, you still need time to build trust and your safety is still your own responsibility, even more than it is your partners to keep you safe. Once trust is built, you STILL have the self-responsibility to see to your own safety. You cannot just depend on your partner to keep you safe. You might see a risk they do not and you must be alert to that possibility and not ignore it based on your trust of your partner alone. For both partners, safeguarding your financial status is important also. Especially for submissives that give up working, or even their money to the Dominant, while serving. Too many submissives end up with nothing to their name and nowhere to go if/when a dynamic ends. Depending on how the relationship ends, some Dominants will help the submissive get on their feet alone, and then some Dominants won’t. We must remember, we all evolve. As much as we want our dynamics to last forever, the reality is it doesn’t always happen. Safeguarding your future is important. Though out the BDSM lifestyle, being safe and using safety measures is a huge part of living the lifestyle. There are inherent risks in much of what we do. To ignore the risk is foolish and can lead to injuries, maybe serious injuries. Think safe and play safe about and with your partner, but also for yourself. No matter our role, we are responsible for what we agree to do. © 2/11/24 Ronald Dirienzo
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i had not thought about the "giving up financial resources" part of the lifestyle. this is a good read!
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