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There are many things that are unacceptable in the BDSM Lifestyle. Being noncommunicative, Dishonest, untrustworthy and disrespectable would all be unacceptable as they go against the four pillars of BDSM. Since Consent is imperative in everything involved in BDSM, ignoring consent would be abuse, which is totally unacceptable Coercion, manipulation, gaslighting are all unacceptable behavior in a Lifestyle that relies on openness and honesty. Just like ignoring consent, ignoring limits, boundaries and tolerances are all unacceptable. Ignoring the safety, health and wellbeing of your partner is unacceptable. Teaching a novice false premises of BDSM is unacceptable. Such as telling a submissive the BDSM contract is legally binding and makes them a slave for life. Or telling the submissive there are no limits allowed for a slave, that the Dominant is always right, is unacceptable. That the submissive must obey no matter what is asked of them. If you vet properly and thoroughly, most people reveal themselves if they have unacceptable behavior. There are few people so talented as to be able to hide their unacceptable behaviors for a long length of time under scrutiny. That is why they try to rush you into decisions. So they entrap you before they slip up. NEVER accept unacceptable behaviors. NEVER think YOU can change the person with unacceptable behavior, no matter how enticing they seem. NEVER be lazy and fall into unacceptable behavior. It is the quickest way to end a dynamic and alienate the Community. I’m sure you can think of, or seen, other unacceptable behavior in the Lifestyle and from pretenders of the Lifestyle. Don’t let yourself be fooled by smooth talk. Vet aggressively. Your safety depends on it and any respectable person in the Lifestyle will expect direct questions and answers. If they don’t like them, walk away, it’s your right to safeguard yourself. © 2/13/24 Ronald Dirienzo
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 Slave rick
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Unacceptable to me is when men shave their crotch area. 🫦 Many guys think this looks sexy and desirable NOT🤢... Unacceptable to me is blowing any guy who shaves below the belt BLAH👅
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