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rondiri 65M
7306 posts
2/20/2024 12:27 pm

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2/21/2024 10:05 am

Decisive


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rondiri 65M
11182 posts
2/20/2024 12:27 pm

Neither partner in a BDSM dynamic wants a hesitant partner, no matter what the role.
A submissive wants a Dominant that is decisive in their decisions and actions.
A Dominant wants a submissive that is decisive in their responses and actions.
Being decisive, and making the correct decisions and actions, shows that a partner is capable in their role. When they hesitate constantly, it can make a partner wary and unsettled about if the other partner knows what they are actually doing.
While decisiveness builds confidence in a partners abilities, ongoing hesitation breaks down confidence and possibly trust and respect.
Yes, hesitating is a good thing when a situation arises that you have never dealt with before. It is best to hesitate and make the right choice, rather than bull ahead to seem decisive and make the wrong choice.
But that shouldn’t happen too often in a dynamic, especially with experienced partners. Hesitation shouldn’t be a consistent behavior.
Decisiveness, again, when the decisions and actions are correct, is a sign of strength, alertness, knowledge and experience. It is a sign of leadership in a Dominant and obedience in a submissive.
But don’t be fooled by someone that makes quick decisions and actions, but are constantly mistaken in the decision and action. That is not decisive, that is being rash and or impulsive.
One reason where not being decisive is acceptable is when the person has a chronic illness or condition that makes them hesitate. Of course the reasons for being indecisive should be discussed prior to any consent being given so that the partners are aware of the situation and can act and react accordingly and not be surprised by it.
© 2/20/24 Ronald Dirienzo


shackles4metoo 72M
1022 posts
2/20/2024 12:42 pm

Rolling Stone
Trump Ranks Dead Last (Again) in Poll of Presidential Greatness

I think this poll may be seriously skewed. While it shows results of Republican, Democrat, Independent, Liberal, and Conservative ... it doesn't enumerate how many of each class there are. I'd also appreciate knowing the identities of the persons who identified in each category. It would make a big difference if the Republicans on the panel were "Liz Cheney" or "Adam Kinsinger".

As I've pointed out in the past, "there three types of lies ... lies, damn lies and statistics".

Your comments are welcome, but not necessarily agreed with.


shackles4metoo 72M
1022 posts
2/20/2024 1:52 pm

    Quoting shackles4metoo:
    Rolling Stone
    Trump Ranks Dead Last (Again) in Poll of Presidential Greatness

    I think this poll may be seriously skewed. While it shows results of Republican, Democrat, Independent, Liberal, and Conservative ... it doesn't enumerate how many of each class there are. I'd also appreciate knowing the identities of the persons who identified in each category. It would make a big difference if the Republicans on the panel were "Liz Cheney" or "Adam Kinsinger".

    As I've pointed out in the past, "there three types of lies ... lies, damn lies and statistics".

    Your comments are welcome, but not necessarily agreed with.
What's the matter? No one brave enough to express their opinion?


brandygirasol 55T
9434 posts
2/21/2024 5:11 am

My guess is that Ron would agree with that obviously left wing biased "poll" ... Ha☺️ .... However IMHO President Trump is the GREATEST or at least in the top three in USA history- fir what HE is about to do saving the country when he gets back in the White House ❤️TRUMP2024❤️


rondiri 65M
11182 posts
2/21/2024 8:14 am

    Quoting shackles4metoo:
    What's the matter? No one brave enough to express their opinion?
Well, your opinion about Trump is posted in a BDSM article on Decisiveness. That may be why.


BoundSissy2013 51T  
257 posts
2/21/2024 9:48 am

    Quoting brandygirasol:
    My guess is that Ron would agree with that obviously left wing biased "poll" ... Ha☺️ .... However IMHO President Trump is the GREATEST or at least in the top three in USA history- fir what HE is about to do saving the country when he gets back in the White House ❤️TRUMP2024❤️
i am pretty sure if the orange one gets back into office, he and his people will be coming for you. he is bringing back the christians and anyone who is not "normal". i am fairly certain they will just burn you like the witches of olden days gone by.

Hope


rondiri replies on 2/21/2024 10:05 am:
exactly


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