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All throughout the BDSM lifestyle, there are questions. From the beginning, during vetting to living in a dynamic, there are questions to ask. While vetting, in my opinion, there are NO questions that are off limits. How can you choose a partner if you don’t know everything you want and need to know about them? The only way to find out, short of hiring a private detective, is to ask questions and get honest answers. Once in a dynamic, Dominants will ask plenty of questions of their submissives. Always expecting the proper answer. And the good Dominants will ask questions of their submissives about how they feel about the dynamic, the relationship, what happened in scenes and even how the Dominant can help the submissive more. Where things get murky about questions is when submissives, or if submissives can or should ask questions of the Dominant. To this I say, absolutely. A submissive should question everything and decide whether it is safe, safe, and consensual. Is it worth the risk? Is it within their limits and capabilities? It is not wrong for the submissive to ask reasonable questions of their Dominant. Not just about how to better serve the Dominant, but also the tougher questions. Is this safe? Is the Dominant capable of wielding/using an implement? And even why the Dominant made a decision if it wasn’t explained. Submissives are not automatons. They can think and question. If a Dominant doesn’t like that, they can always find another submissive. Until total trust is established between the Dominant and submissive, questions need to be asked to build that trust, learn the reasoning of the Dominant. A slave should have less to question, but still has a right to ask when pertinent. Questions shouldn’t be feared, they should be embraced for the opportunity they give to communicate, be honest, build trust and respect. © 3/9/24 Ronald Dirienzo
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DOMs I've gotten with usually like to indulge in lots of bondage and flagellation play...👿 So you can bet I ask plenty of questions before I find myself tied up at the mercy of some DOM -believe me!!!😳
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