Close Please enter your Username and Password
Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
Password reset link sent to
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service

rondiri 65M
7296 posts
3/24/2024 2:21 pm

Last Read:
3/26/2024 8:04 am

Guide


article in comments

rondiri 65M
11155 posts
3/24/2024 2:21 pm

It is part of the Dominant’s responsibility to be a guide to the submissive. That doesn’t necessarily mean to take complete control and tell the submissive how to live every aspect of their life. Guiding a submissive can take many shapes and forms, inside and outside of the dynamic. It all depends on the kind of person the submissive is.
Guidance can be anything from how to conduct themselves at a BDSM event, to how to effectively pay down credit debt, to being a shoulder to lean on when the submissive has family or work issues.
Guiding is about helping someone along, not dragging them along the path the Dominant wants them to follow.
Believe it or not, a submissive can also guide a Dominant at times. Not all Dominants are proficient at everything in life. There can be some things that the submissive is more skilled at. Maybe the submissive should tackle the bank account and bill paying, or the submissive guiding the Dominant through the death of a loved family member, or just reminding the Dominant to relax and breathe after a trying day at the job.
To some guiding is setting the tone of how the dynamic will be lived, but guidance can come from either partner and take many forms.
© 3/24/24 Ronald Dirienzo


shackles4metoo 72M
978 posts
3/24/2024 3:24 pm

You're not a dominant. You're a sheeple of msfunfor and the liberals.
Just admit it and set yourself free.


rondiri replies on 3/25/2024 8:57 am:
and you are a joke of thinking that way. I may dominate different than you, it you in fact do and don't get topped from the bottom the way trump has you fooled.
Try to stay on topic, this isn't a political post, or are you too senile to tell the difference?

dryfte 69F
97 posts
3/24/2024 4:40 pm



Good to see that common sense can prevail with guidance provided
by those skilled and knowledgeable in a particular area independent of role.
Can't imagine a Domly type carrying all the responsibility for all aspects
of a relationship and life.
A wise one would know his limits and use resources that are
available rather than allowing ego to dictate.

Just saying...



"shaped by life, experiences, choices and one day by He who she will come to know as her Master"


rondiri replies on 3/25/2024 8:58 am:

JohnnyLightning 65M  
9644 posts
3/24/2024 5:18 pm

    Quoting shackles4metoo:
    You're not a dominant. You're a sheeple of msfunfor and the liberals.
    Just admit it and set yourself free.
You hit the nail right on the head.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


rondiri replies on 3/25/2024 8:59 am:
You're just as bad as the original replier. What's that on your head? Your dominance?

grywolf2 73M
3084 posts
3/24/2024 7:15 pm

No, the best that dummy could manage would be to hit his fingers.

Afterward, he'd blame it on the Liberals.


rondiri replies on 3/25/2024 9:00 am:
Avoiding facts won't change things. Again, stick to the topic of the post. But I guess you can't understand what posts are political and which are about BDSM.

brandygirasol 54T
9427 posts
3/25/2024 12:35 am

😎😎😎


rondiri replies on 3/25/2024 9:00 am:

Artschoolgrad 46M
8666 posts
3/26/2024 7:38 am

a good guide is so important. hard to find.


rondiri replies on 3/26/2024 8:04 am:


Become a member to comment on this blog