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In many BDSM dynamics, hurt is part of the dynamic. Whether it is impact play, nipple play, hot wax or the many other kinks that cause pain, hurting the submissive is a normal part of play and some protocol. Hurting should always be a controlled action on the Dominant’s part. Knowing the limits, boundaries and tolerances of the submissive is extremely important so that the hurt doesn’t turn into harm, two distinct things in BDSM. When agreed to and consented to, hurt is accepted, even enjoyed, by the submissive. Whether it is for the enjoyment of the Dominant and/or the submissive or for discipline, hurt enhances the dynamic, as long as consent was given. But when hurt, turns into harm, there is no enhancement. Accidental harm may be discussed, forgiven and put behind the partners in the dynamic. Constant harm when it should only be hurt is just plain, simple abuse. A Dominant should know how far they can go with hurt, and stop before they get to harm. A submissive should know how much hurt they can withstand and when reaching that tolerance limit, use a safeword before harm is done. Both partners have a responsibility to prevent hurt from becoming harm, though if the submissive goes into subspace, the Dominant must take the reins and ensure no harm is done. Safe play and protocol use tends to make dynamics last, unsafe practices will end dynamics. © 3/24/24 Ronald Dirienzo
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Some of us are wimpy masochists with a low tolerance for pain😵... like yours truly ME😥
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yes. hurt is always the challenge. how much can she take? how to know how to help her push herself, assuming she wants to, without going too far.
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