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In the BDSM Lifestyle, when someone hears the word impact, they expect to hear “play” follow. Impact play is a big part of many dynamics, but I have covered that aspect of the lifestyle previously. What I would like to talk about it impact as it relates to having an effect on a partner. There are those that never consider what impact they have on the life of their dynamic partner or just a play partner. They never consider the implications of what they do, say, act and interact with a partner. The impact a Dominant has on a submissive can be massive at either end of the spectrum. A respectable Dominant can have a positive effect on the life of a submissive, not only by giving pleasure during play, but with positive guidance, affection, teaching new lifestyle activities and concepts, patiently and skillfully expanding limits, boundaries and abilities and helping the submissive grow as a submissive and a person. A poor dominant can traumatize a submissive, sometimes for life. Scaring the submissive away from the lifestyle and possibly making them wary of even dating again but doing all the opposite of the above. So too, a submissive has an impact of Dominants. A good submissive can thrill a Dominant to know end. Making them proud of their ownership or dynamic. While a poor submissive can make a Dominant wonder if it is all worth the effort at the negative extreme. Of course there is mostly a middle ground of impact where the partners go along smoothly, happy with what they have and glad for it. However it plays out, we should all be aware of the impact we are making on our partner. It DOES make a difference in more than the dynamic. It also affects our lives AND our reputations. © 3/26/24 Ronald Dirienzo
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When I hear the word IMPACT I immediately guard my tush...😳
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for me, this is the most rewarding part: "positive guidance, affection, teaching new lifestyle activities and concepts, patiently and skillfully expanding limits, boundaries and abilities and helping the submissive grow as a submissive and a person." taking her through an experience and getting her safely and enjoyably to the other side of it is so rewarding. and to have her climax in one's arms...
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