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Words and tone are very important when they come from a Dominant’s or a submissive’s lips. Meanings can come out differently depending on how you say something and the way you say it. “If you keep disobeying me, I will paddle you.” Is a threat by the Dominant aimed at making the submissive obey. While being threatening in a menacing way is not a good thing for a Dominant, a threat that is in the form of a discipline action is a constructive way to get a submissive to stop acting out. The sentence, said with a serious tone, can let the submissive know you are not playing games and have run out of patience with the disobedience. The same sentence, said with a tone that is playful with a smile, lets the submissive know you are ready to engage in a cat in mouse game that will probably end up in a paddling anyway. Now, changing the words a bit and the tone to: “If you keep disobeying me I’m going to beat you black and blue!” The threat becomes a menacing threat of possible harm because the Dominant will act in anger, potentially causing harm to the submissive. This kind of threat should never be used by a Dominant. It is in no way playful or that of a disciplinarian in control of the situation. It shows a loss of self-control and is a red flag waving in front of the submissive’s eyes. Rather than saying this, a Dominant should send the submissive to a corner or some kind of time out while the Dominant cools down. Using the wrong tone and the wrong words can make a submissive wary, weaken their trust and respect and hurt the dynamic. Choose the words you use and the tone you use wisely. When a submissive uses a threatening tone and words, it can be cause for discipline. When a Dominant uses the wrong words and tone, the submissive has few options. If they become fearful enough of the threats, it could lead to the end of the dynamic. © 4/2/24 Ronald Dirienzo
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Ron I've never hooked up with a DOM who didn't relish threaten me with all kinds of bondage and torture🔥🔥🔥 if I don't obey orders exactly as instructed..😲
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Thanks Rondiri....for reminding. Got the message. Much depends on how long this D/s dynamic already exists: Are they a fresh new starting couple or do they know each other already some time!? Greetz, Dom J.
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