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rondiri 65M
7305 posts
4/23/2024 12:57 pm

Last Read:
4/25/2024 8:06 am

Incommunicado


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rondiri 65M
11169 posts
4/23/2024 12:57 pm

To my mind, one of the worst things a Dominant can do to a submissive is to force them to be incommunicado with friend and family.
There is only one reason for a Dominant to do this. That is to keep the submissive from getting advice and help from those they trust.
Dominant will come up with all sorts of reasons for the submissive to not contact family and friends. They will try to manipulate what family and friends say to make the submissive believe they do not have the submissive’s best interest at heart, but that the Dominant and only the Dominant does.
A submissive cut off from family and friends is at the mercy of the Dominant and any of the Dominant’s friends he may see fit to allow the submissive to engage with. The “friends” may not have the submissive’s best interest at heart either, only the Dominant’s.
Being incommunicado takes away the only safety net a submissive has if things go wrong. It forces the submissive to take the Dominant’s word for everything, true or false. It ensures the submissive will not find out if the Dominant is telling them the truth, training them correctly or is just keeping the submissive captive.
Family and friends may give advice contrary to what the submissive wants to do and what the Dominant partner says. But that is for the submissive to decide how to handle and who to believe.
Communication is not only important between the Dominant and submissive, but between the partners and the outside world of family and friends, as well as those outside the dynamic, but in the Lifestyle, that the other partner may not be friends with to get any possible differing opinions about the lifestyle.
© 4/23/24 Ronald Dirienzo


rydermantel 69M
25202 posts
4/23/2024 2:32 pm

Interesting word.


rondiri replies on 4/24/2024 8:18 am:

bikerforslut 64M
329 posts
4/23/2024 3:39 pm

Seems the common idiot has a man crush on you, why does this MORON parrot almost every thing you post???


rondiri replies on 4/24/2024 8:18 am:
Narcissism?

rydermantel 69M
25202 posts
4/25/2024 1:25 am

    Quoting bikerforslut:
    Seems the common idiot has a man crush on you, why does this MORON parrot almost every thing you post???
Are you a pirate?



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