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3/24/2022 3:14 pm |
My bf broke up with me... (sad face). Not sure of the reason because he was so vague and embarrassed. 'Not a good fit', and 'It's not you it's me' and 'I really wish it could be different' are a few of the phrases he said that haunt my memories now as I sit here bored and alone. Here are the reasons that run through my mind as to what was/were the reason(s)... 1) I was too clingy (I tried not to be but he was so perfect in my life... or so I thought) 2) I was too old (He was 20 yrs my junior but tbh it never seemed to be a problem...) We never hung out with his friends but I have been to parties with them all and they all seemed to like me. 3) I was too perverted ('Vanilla' doesn't do it for me - need more - but he seemed to be into it) I had called him to say that I had tested positive for covid and that he should get tested too (That can't be it... right?) and he said that he had planned on stopping by to 'talk'. I told him that in case he wasn't positive for covid he shouldn't take the chance so he broke up with me over the phone. The reason it is only (sad face) and not (sobbing hysterically) in the first line is because I 'felt' something was up. We hadn't seen as much of each other as before and when we did he seemed 'different' somehow, like there was something on his mind. Boy was there. I am not writing this for sympathy, but I am certainly not writing it for people to judge me. I was tossing around in my head whether I should tell him about Alt (which looking back I should have I guess), or leaving Alt (but I have made some good chat buddies here, although you couldn't tell by the amount of time I have spent chatting with them lately). I am writing this to say it out loud to maybe get some closure, and also to let my friends here know what is going on in my life and the reason for my absence. When I feel better (covid is kicking my ass right now) I am going to spend some time on here perving and playing and take some time to decide what I want and need in my life. Should I try to find a guy who is as pervy as I am and okay with my flirting and teasing other men, or find Mr 'Safe and Sensible' and become Mrs. 'Normal Everyday Housewife'? I said earlier I do not want sympathy or criticism, but would absolutely love to hear your comments. Stay safe my friends. Covid is real and not much fun! Kat
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Very unfortunate circumstances sexy kat Cant help but be sympathetic, i am sorry to hear this Above all, i hope you feel better and shake that covid asap Time will help heal your heart It is his loss, im sure he realizes it now Beautiful woman Sir
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3/24/2022 3:58 pm |
Always here with an ear if you need to talk. Kisses and hugs 
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HI, sorry for the problems you are having get plenty of rest with the COVID, I've heard plenty of stories about how it kicks your ass My gut feeling, is he found someone else and couldn't tell you. As far as what you should do, You should be who you are. If you try to bury your kinks to be Mrs. 'Normal Everyday Housewife', you will regret it sooner than later. We are who we are and if we hide it, it's still there and will want to come out. Find someone compatible with your Alt pleasures.
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Sorry this happened to you. But probably better it ended sooner than later, did nto seem he was right for you. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Get well soon!
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Hmm I’d have to say probably a combo of all 3 of your assumptions & heavy on 2-3 BUT not to worry every door that closes means another will open you’re hoT kinky girl l suspect you won’t be single for long! I hope you feel better soon & have a speedy recovery!
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3/24/2022 4:49 pm |
Move on and move forward
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3/24/2022 5:11 pm |
Hi Kat , your still a sexygirl, get well soon . Good vibes and thoughts. Your friend Tall
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covid is no joke and it's important to tend to your physical health during this time. if you're feeling frisky, though, that's a good sign that your battle with covid will end soon, without much collateral damage. best to you on that front. with regard to twenty year age gaps between partners... it's not a problem when it comes to sex, but i find it is for nearly everything else. i recently went through the same thing with a lovely younger woman, but outside the bedroom, we didn't have much in common or much to talk about. with regard to whether a perverted kinkster can find true love and happiness in a vanilla relationship... my experience has been yes and no. if you like hard driving, pulse pounding sex... well, i think you'll find a lot of vanilla folks like that, too. i would advise not putting labels on it... let the kinkier toys and the requests for real deviant behavior wait until you have an established relationship... and then do something out of bounds and unexpected and kinky for your partner. once you do... and once he discovers he likes it, it'll be a lot easier to tell him all the nasty stuff you'd like done to you. you could also try putting "GGG" in vanilla dating app profiles. the inclusion of that designation tends to attract kinkier, more willing partners. YMMV. one's instincts are usually right and it sounds like he was moving on (at least in spirit) even before he told you he was moving on.
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Hi Kat, Take care of your health. I agree with DickTastee, when there is that much difference in age what is there to talk about, other than the hot sex. Trust me I get young ones 30-40 years old leaving hotlists or flirts on my profile. Nice bodies but I can tell they will not stimulate my big head...and the little head will not be happy. Heal up, get healthy and I am sure the right man will cum your way . Sir V
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1. Get rest as Covid will fatigue you out. 2. No reason to compromise if you have become mindful of what you are and what you want in this life. 3. Perverts don't let perverts hang out to be eaten by the vultures. When you are ready; come back and be yourself. Be a blessing as you are a blessing.
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If your not vanilla then a vanilla guy won't work....desire is a very powerful thing
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I myself would not only tell him about everything but tell him how you feel about him. Who knows he may end up being a friend with benefits. He is possibly thinking the same thing. So tell him and tell him what your likes are and enjoy him.
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Covid is no laughing matter. Rest and take care of yourself!
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Kat, funny, I've recently been thinking of a woman I dated in my late 20s. She told me one night, "There's something I have to tell you... I'm 50." She was gorgeous, warm, normal, and very successful. I think the last one was the toughie, as she worked in an affluent, exclusive area. I stopped seeing her, and I later learned need She married her plastic surgeon. Are you over Covid? I hope things are well. First posts in two decades. (Basic membership.)
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