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raw929 54M/53F
8 posts
2/13/2022 11:43 am
Why is it so hard?


You play, you explore...peaked interests. Searching trying to find a compatible playmate. Everyone's goals, interest and kinks vary. The sheer multitude of different interests is mind numbing. Trying to find someone to trust in today's society is even harder with all the scams and fake profiles. I have a multitude of kinks and ideas to explore, most handled by a loving and attentive husband. The fulfilling of testing my limits is hard for him, he does not like/want to hurt me and is not schooled in the art of bdsm. Patience wanning....needing to let my freak out to play... why does it have to be so hard finding someone compatible?
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ridermantel 68M

2/13/2022 12:45 pm

The field has always been a narrow one and particular kinks narrow it even further.


slaveforyou365 63M  
4515 posts
2/13/2022 1:12 pm



Slave rick


Artschoolgrad 47M
8730 posts
2/13/2022 2:19 pm

agree with ridermantel.

can husband be schooled in the art of bdsm?


AlwaysSubmit 56M/55F
2 posts
2/13/2022 7:27 pm

We find that there is a lot of confusion on terms used, and a complete lack of transparency. We've reported over 50 fake accounts and scammers, and they often don't even enforce policies. We can't filter out people we have no interest in correctly and can't prevent them from approaching us either. Its frustrating. I've considered designing a new site I'm so tired of it.


raw929 54M/53F
4 posts
2/13/2022 7:39 pm

I believe with some patience and a good master that it's possible.


raw929 54M/53F
4 posts
2/13/2022 7:40 pm

Let us know if you do! 😉


DancingDom 74M
22592 posts
2/14/2022 6:55 am

Welcome to the blogs. best to you. Hope you find what you are craving.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
2/14/2022 7:08 am

The problem with 'testing limits', whether it's an airplane, a car, a boat or a body . . . Is the fine - often invisible line between limit and break! A word to the wise, from the experienced. Best Wishes.

Happy Valentine's Day!


“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”


raw929 replies on 2/14/2022 11:00 am:
Yes, I'm sure it is. I haven't begun to scratch the surface...


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