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lilsarahcdtv 67T  
3 posts
3/9/2022 8:29 pm
Collar part two
's another part of being collared that is very pertinent my request, and that is the Dominant's implied or explicit commitment protect their collared submissive. Protect, mold, train, perfect... own. And why is unusual for a submissive do what i did: ask for a collar. request of a Dominant that level of commitment is usually considered poor form for a submissive. Having a collared submissive does not preclude the Dominant for relationships with others, submissive or Dominant, but it does mean the Dominant has commit time, thought, and energy that one.

i will admit that it was impulsive of me ask this boon, this commitment from my Dominants. Not that i didn't think about it before actually asking. i am a needy submissive: i need every so often, or at least engage in some form of directed activity, and i need make a Dominant happy with the performance of my task, whatever it is They require of me. The pleaser in me needs that feedback, part of the reason i go searching where i shouldn't.

what i need isn't a collar but a corral, a place be penned up, able and exercise, but limited from going astray. that's why i love pony , is because i belong in a corral! See, even my thoughts go astray when not kept the task!
docile_1_4u 65M
114 posts
3/25/2022 2:13 pm

 i completely understand. i am very deeply submissive and to find that right Dominant, the one who truly understands the deep submissive nature and need in me is rare. It takes time to get to know a Dominant, and can take quite some time for them to get to know me deeply like that. If it's right, at least from my perspective, it sends me that much deeper into submission and that need grows even stronger.

i have never asked to be collared, but i have thought about it a few times. Once i was collared based on a discussion and mutual agreement, desires on D and s parts. Another time it was totally the Dominants choice, but i was so ready and couldn't say no.

i haven't thought much about pony play, though it is an interest. But i crave to be collared again, to be owned. And while i've never been put or kept in a cage, sometimes i can see that for myself.



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