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ElenaMalena2 54T
3 posts
4/26/2022 2:20 am
Elena Malena2 Here: Desperately Seeking a Virtual Daddy?


Hiya All! (but especially, of course to those of you with Dom tendencies who like t-girls)

I have had my profile turned off for weeks now as it was pretty quiet on here and there seemed to be only sporadic interest. But I thought I'd give it one more try with a Blog post before I give up permanently and leave!

So after i joined earlier this year I did start chatting to a couple of Doms and even started performing some virtual Sub tasks for them. This was exciitng initially but had only got to the stage of me sending them photos, we had not;progressed onto me sending them videos or doing stuff live online.



I was totally up for that, though I could only do it every now and then, and once I got into that they meeting IRL But we never got there as the interaction just was not very satisfactory in the end. One of the Doms got ill and was not able to respond, then left the site. The other was still on here but his written communications were just too brief - if you are just messaging you both need to be able to convey some real passion and kink that way for it to work. maybe it would have improved once we got to live camming or whatever, i do not know.

Edit: To be fair It seems that most people on here are experienced in the lifestyle and/or have a very specific set of requirements they need to be fulfilled (and are perhaps mroe honest honest. So I have been approached both by UK Doms (who unfortunately mainly at the sadisitc end of BDSM) and also some UK Subs (but being a Dom myself is not really what I'm after). There have also been a couple of Doms who were

Anyway, just talking to myself mainly here I bet, but if anybody has any suggestion or comments do pitch in, I like to chat!

XXX

msfunfor 63M
10822 posts
4/26/2022 9:41 am

 hope it works better this time .
remember this is more of a ''window-shopping'' site than actual ''purchases'' ..lol


ElenaMalena2 replies on 4/26/2022 4:06 pm:
Thank you Sir, I appreciate the kindness!

And its reassuring -to me - that you woud reach out on a site like this - ie that having kinks doesn't have to equate with being cruel generally IRL (of course).

FYI I have been able to hook up wth a few guys, incuding one IRL, just fine on relatively more 'vanilla' dating> So I'm kind of thinking me being a total beginner and not being expereinced and oven ready to meet veey specific needs people have is the problem.

DancingDom 74M
22619 posts
4/26/2022 10:28 am

 Well welcome to the blogs. Best to you in the long run. I would not leave, because you had some ..disappointments. You may just have not encountered the right person for you. Most sites like this have the same issues.

Many think because of the site marketing you can get a partner(s) like going to the market and picking out a candy bar at the checkout. This is not a supermarket.
"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ElenaMalena2 replies on 4/26/2022 4:14 pm:
Hi.! Thanks for such a kind response, that is very kind of you and encouraging!

I do know exacly what you mean about sites like this being shop windows. I am on another 'dating' site and the signal to noise ratio is very taxing. I have finally managed in the last couple of months to meet a guy IRL and it was loverlty> But laong the way I had half a dozen also-rans, who took up a fair bit of attention.

xxx

ridermantel 68M

5/5/2022 8:50 am

 Nice pics.



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