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First Site Meet Up- What to Expect? Well, I am planning my first site meetup. Has anyone else meet up with anyone off of the website? Was there any precautions you took?  |
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I actually met my wife here on alt. After conversing for a few months we met at a hotel. Have a safe call where you call a friend every so often (like hourly) for the first meeting at least. Make sure someone knows where you went. Actually best to meet in a public place, like coffee shop, if the distance between you is not prohibitive. Good luck.
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I've met several. Be safe, have a safe call, and have a current picture, their license number and type of car, and meet publicly. It's a meet, not a session. Good luck and have fun. I personally won't meet anyone until I've chatted with them online and by phone, for about 30 days, people can change in time.
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first thing is make sure you meet in a public place. do plenty of talking to make sure what he/she said on here has not change. being mace and stun gun if you plan on after go to a motel. be safe as you can. there's plenty of time to have fun after the first meeting
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5/23/2022 2:05 pm |
Recommend that you have a series of phone calls to get to know the other person since talking is very spontaneous and you should be able to get a "feel" for the other person. Next meet in a public place during daylight say for lunch. Converse with that other person to the point you feel comfortable with them. In the parking lot have that person (Male or Female) stand in the back of their car with license plate showing and take a photo of person and car with license plate visible. Next take a photo of the final location (Hotel or Residence) where you going to spend your Playtime at. Send photos to a friend with a brief explanation and that you've met so and so (give complete name) for a first date. This is how I proceed when ever I meet a Future Submissive or Slave. Best of Luck and Have FUN. Master Bob
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Generally, a good idea to meet in public, Don't agree to anything unless you are totally comfortable. If you can, let someone know where you are going, and set a check-in schedule so they know you are safe. There SHOULD be no play the first meeting. Get to know each other, make sure of the limits and boundaries, set... better safe than sorry.
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Have had several meets off this site, and cannot argue with any of the advice given. Hope it works out well and leads to fun things, but your safety is paramount.
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Not yet, but hope to soon. We have messaged for a few weeks and traded a couple photos. Last Thursday we did a Zoom call as a way to confirm we're real and chat more. Just waiting for schedules to align so we can meet in person. With any luck it will be soon.
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5/24/2022 7:06 am |
mine never showed up
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Je ne sais pas où tu es, mais tu m'as attiré fortement vers toi jusqu'à ce que je t'adore et que tu me provoques toujours, tu es attirant et combien j'espère être avec toi et j'espère que tu me laisseras un message parce que je besoin, un sourire de votre
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Met many folks from this site years ago. Not many would I meet now days. Way too many fakes and scammers...who would not likely meet in the first place. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Brooke I looked at your profile. I close if this doesn't work out. Please consider me . Cause until I read this was going to delete cause. I'll I have seen is ladies text a couple time then want money. Safety tips 1 have someone you trust close when you meet them.unles your comfortable 2. Give that person location your going and a time to here u by 3. If you do agree to go somewhere private make sure it somewhere you are comfortable at 4. Know what he taking in room. Don't want surprised first time. He should treat you like a lady until you tell him otherwise
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6/7/2022 7:26 am |
I have met up with two members from here over the years with no problems. We always met up in a busy environment the first meet though.
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Yes, first meet should be in a public place with other people around. If you don't feel safe and comfortable, leave.
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I would have the first meeting be at a restaurant or a bar. Doing this allows more time spent together talking and finding out if you are both on the same page with likes and dislikes. I like these kinds of places as let a person some place to go if one is nervous can use the bathroom for any reason. These places have well-lit parking areas usually
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I met my wife on Match.com 18 years ago, in 2004, when I was 56 and she was 52. (Didn't know about Alt until 2007) After talking on the phone for a month, she came to my house. Lucky for her I was who I pretended to be (To quote Kurt Vonnegut from Mother Night). I wouldn't say we were exactly kinky, but we were both sex-starved and very sexual. Over the next few months, after some early rough patches, we began living together and got married in 2012. When I discovered Alt I started blogging and eventually we met about 15 people, straight, bi, trans, Dommes, subs, etc. (Not for sex--if you can believe this, for friendship!) Everyone was who they pretended to be and we still maintain contact with some of them. Like Dancing Dom says, "Not many would I meet nowadays. Way too many fakes and scammers.." All I can say is, be careful. You have covered all bases as to describing yourself. Hopefully, there are some real guys out there worthy of your attention. Good luck.
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