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BrookeStorme 37F
81 posts
6/26/2022 12:47 pm
In Search of A Dom


Application:

Where do you live?
How old are you?
Are you single?
Do you take on more than one slave, sub, or L G?
What types of BDSM are you into?
What sort of Toys, Equipment, or Furniture for your fetishes do you already own?
What is your availability?

This may or may not sound silly to you, but at times I do not like suprises🙃

ridermantel 68M

6/26/2022 1:10 pm

It is not silly at all. I am sure you can hone this list as you go. I would also look at educational background and social interests. Number One is always safety. Keep that in mind. Compatibility is also important. Communications that are open and coherent are also essential. You have to start somewhere.


Velvet_263 61F
322 posts
6/26/2022 2:21 pm

If their first idea of a meeting is a blow job in their car on a dark street somewhere!!! Say NO!


alwaysassertive 64M

6/26/2022 6:52 pm

why dont you just go slow and get to know someone as a person first..Every thing you want to know will be revealed in time. Just remember people accept the love they think they deserve. Have high standards. if they are pushing for sex. then look for someone else. Chances are good you deserve more than they are offering if you have to ask these questions. Most of the men on this site are either mentally retarded, trash or a combination, and to be fair there are women like that here as well. Guard your heart and take care. of yourself.


BrookeStorme 37F

6/27/2022 12:44 am

I just would prefer these questions be answered right away opposed to waiting and dragging the process out. It gets frustrating when as a female I have to pull the answers to the same questions out of each individual I talk to.


tastetester61 62M
1781 posts
6/27/2022 6:58 am

In answer to your questions;

1) Near Canberra
2) Unfortunately older than you're willing to accept (my age and all details on my profile are all accurate).
3) Yes
4) Only one, that takes full concentration to do properly. Prefer a daughter type, but not a little.
5) I'm a daddy type, but not into littles. I'm into a broad range of things as detailed in my profile, particularly restraining, orgasm control, sensory control, and making my sub work hard toward achieving her own goals and dreams.
6) That's a difficult one to some degree. Not everyone is in a position to have a dungeon, so I make do with household furniture. It also make spontaneous action more accessible. As for the personal stuff, everyone has their own preferences, not to mention the hygiene aspects. New sub = new restraints/insertables/impact equipment, etc.
7) If I become personally involved with a sub, infinitely available. She IS the centre of attention.

Without any expectation, if you ever want to discuss any of this to try to understand more of what I'm about, or just to satisfy your curiosity about anything I've said, feel free to chat privately through my blog.

Whatever you choose to do, good luck with it.


jaykay48 75M
11457 posts
6/27/2022 8:22 am

Facetime is a good way of cutting through the possible deception. (An aversion to this form of communication is an excellent way of ruling out those candidates.)


tastetester61 62M
1781 posts
6/29/2022 6:49 am

    Quoting jaykay48:
    Facetime is a good way of cutting through the possible deception. (An aversion to this form of communication is an excellent way of ruling out those candidates.)
Not necessarily. That means giving up some of your contact information, which for some is not acceptable. Understandably so.


Dunkkirk 39M
24 posts
1/7/2023 7:26 pm

30 years old. Single built master. Into hard Belly punching fetish. Interested to get your stomach punched?



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