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GrdnMstr 67M
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8/18/2022 9:27 am

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8/18/2022 4:40 pm
Anal thoughts...
I know anal sex figures prominently in my thoughts and writings. Is it a deal-breaker? Not really. For me, it is tied in with the issue of dominance and submission. For me, it represents an intimate act of submission and as such it must be offered freely or not at all. I could make a case that this is true for any sexual activity. No matter how much I like it, if my partner doesn’t enjoy it, I’m not likely to enjoy it myself. It’s fine if the reason she enjoys it is that she enjoys pleasing me, but the idea that she might be feeling, “OK, here it is, get it over with” is a real buzz-kill. So, the bottom line (heh heh heh) is that if she doesn’t want to do anal (or oral, or exhibitionism, etc.), I can live with it. But what she can’t do is to insist that I abandon it from my fantasies. My fantasies hurt no one and I should be allowed to enjoy whatever thoughts I wish.

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