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Fellatio My own perspective. Obviously, I’ve already said that I like it. I like having my cock sucked. The main reason being, I think, that I like the focused attention. It is one time when I really can just sit back and relax, as it were. It is a time when I do not have any responsibility to please my partner. It is her turn to please me! As a result, I do want her to please me. Of course, I want her to enjoy pleasing me even more, but I’ve already covered that often enough. So how can she please me? Well, I want enthusiasm. It isn’t enough that she “doesn’t mind”. It isn’t enough that she “wants to”. I want to *see* that she wants to! This is a time when I appreciate a little acting for my own benefit! If you’ve ever watched adult movies, you might have noticed a curious thing.... the woman’s vocalizing reflects the *man’s* arousal! As a man, I like to think that my partner is experiencing a thrill similar to my own, and roughly in sync with it. So, I appreciate moans and screams when I’m cumming. This is not the same as faking an orgasm, this is simply part and parcel of pleasing your partner. I do it, too. When my partner begins to cum, I not only continue to do the things that brought her there, but I try to fill her senses with the things she’ll appreciate. I moan, I scream, I quiver, or tense.... whatever seems to please her most at this moment when she is so intensely internally focused. So, enthusiasm is a big part of what I want, even if it entails a bit of acting. I want her to appear to truly worship my cock, to be aroused by what she’s doing to me. Perhaps she’ll moan or squeal with pleasure while my cock’s in her mouth. Or maybe she’ll stimulate herself... pinching her nipples, stroking her clit, or rubbing her pussy on my leg. Something! I also like her to stroke me, touch me.... Lift my balls and stroke them. Suck on them. Run her hands up my stomach, or down my legs, or around to my ass! Let her breasts rub gently against me... I want her to concentrate on my cock, but not forget that there is more of me! I want to watch. I want to see what she is doing to me. This means she needs to be aware of her position, and how it affects my view. Keeping her hair to one side so I can see my cock move in and out of her mouth. Giving me different angles, perhaps. Moving to where I can see her breasts or ass, perhaps touch them as she sucks me. When she fellates me, I want her to be my private pleasure toy! And finally, I like my cock to actually be in her mouth. Being teased is great, but the feeling of being enveloped in her mouth is what I really enjoy. I know a lot of the books tell women that the thing to do is softly flick their tongue against the underside of the penis, just at the base of the glans. They say this is where most of the nerves are, and they may well be right. But for me, it is neither here nor there. Just because there are nerves, doesn’t mean it’s erotic. It just doesn’t turn me on. On the other hand, feeling, and seeing my cock in her mouth is a big turn-on. This also means that, in general, I prefer her hand not too me wrapped around my cock while she’s sucking me. During a blow job, I want a blow job, not a hand job. Not that I am dissing the hand job,, but one or another, please. I also understand that some women use this s a way to control the depth of penetration, but I can help with that. If necessary, I can stay perfectly still. But I’d hope we could establish a consensual rhythm and a mutual level of excitement. In this case, I’d go with the other point they stress in the books.... the most important sexual organ is the one between your ears! And for me, my mind gets high with my cock in her mouth! By the same token, I like being sucked hard, and I like being sucked deep. I don’t think I’ve ever really been deep throated, but I’m sure I’d love it! And, like the time Janelle had a sore neck, I want to be pulled close, sucked even deeper when I start to come! I like the feeling I get when I cum in her mouth, when she accepts it, welcomes it, relishes it! Maybe it’s part and parcel of the enthusiasm thing, but I do love it! So, there you have it. My personal thoughts on fellatio. I make no claim that they’re universal, but they do apply to me. By all means, leave me a comment. I'd be interested to hear your opinions! |
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Thanks, Nellie. Once a woman wrote me: “I can honestly say that I have never in my life sucked on a man's cock just because it was expected of me. I won't do that. Every time I have, I have because I wanted too. When I was in school and actively dating, I did a lot of this and can honestly say I loved it each time just as long as the guy let me suck him off and didn't try to fuck my mouth like it was my CUNT!!! That can hurt!!! I do love the taste of a man's cum, and yes, I know that some woman can't bring themselves to do this, but that's their loss, I guess. I agree, giving pleasure is the number one priority, I think it validates me as a woman, it makes me feel wanted and needed inside, where I live, where it's most important. Sucking on a cock with very full balls is my number one turn on.” I loved the sentiment. I find that level of enjoyment on her part is a bigger turn-on that the blowjob itself!
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9/6/2022 1:03 pm |
Nicely put. I enjoy giving blowjobs and enjoy paying special attention to my man and what he enjoys. I enjoy giving blowjobs because I know it pleases the man so I always do my best to make sure he gets what he likes. Mostly I love giving blowjobs because I love cock. I want to feel it with my hands and my mouth. I want to feel it grow in response to my touch, and taste its warmth in my mouth, its hardness filling my mouth as I gently caress the balls. I want to worship the cock, and I want you to feel that I am worshipping it. I want to take it deep in my mouth and throat and then look up at you to show you that I love it. When my hands arent busy on your cock and balls they will absolutely will be exploring your body... I love rubbing a man's thighs as I suck his cock... And I absolutely will look up at you when you cum to show you how eagerly I will swallow your seed... Cumming in my mouth shows me that you appreciate the good job I did and is a most intimate reward. Nana Nellie
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