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Help me understand Why do so many of you choose to be small, petty and nasty? |
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Apparently it makes them feel more superior, senseless . You are absolutely gorgeous
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They are probably hiding behind their own insecurities and fears, afraid to reveal their true selves. Or they could just be assholes.
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A lot of people are like that from behind the safe anonymity of a keyboard. When there's not much consequences for what people say it's often the case you see how bad they are inside. I'm nasty, but the fun kind of nasty  Have a great day
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12/11/2022 7:55 am |
The true Dom is still a genteman the nasty ones believe thay they behave like Doms instead of treating every female on here as a lady until they find out who sje is amd what she needs
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so many must do that to try to make them feel better. mostly stupid men. laugh them off
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12/11/2022 9:46 am |
real simple , , grown up children ,
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Could be your profile first line that throws some off...
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we are who we are, sometimes we learn to be better.
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Just ignore the most of them, get to LOVE the block button, and crry on! Maybe, some day, you will meet a good guy, with personal ethics and emotional grown-up, too I wont hold your breath, while you enjoy the other blogs. There is enough to learn and laugh about, on here. Find your people!
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mostly people who dont likes them self have a negative attitude to life and try to bully others
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gotta say: cannot defend every man, of course .. but, a *lot* of the women on this site are pretty brutal, themselves 
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Some people are just plain asshats. They can't relaly say or act the way they do in general day to day life. So they do it on the internet, not just here. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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I personally wish you would reveal their names and their conduct.. Most of the men on this site would love to be your protector. Now maybe this draws more attention. I'd love to hear the women express why they don't reveal these cretins. Most men still carry that white knight complex with them and we actually enjoy defending a woman's honor.
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12/11/2022 4:05 pm |
I'm fascinated with (and amused by) some of these replies and the assumptions the authors bring. For all of those with encouraging words, thank you for your thoughts.
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You have to be honest and respectful always. Have the courage to be bold and strait forward with what you desire from them and never ever lie to them about anything that's the only way they will give you 100% trust. If you can do that they will do just about anything you want. And for gods sake never send them a dick pic, real men will always let them down in person. Always have the guts to show them your face.
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12/11/2022 8:11 pm |
Just uncaring ignorant people
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That's a million dollar question, and I would like to know the answer to as well. I always find it interesting when people are on an alternative lifestyle website and then judge others lime they are somehow better. I just laugh at them and move on. They are not worth our time because they don't even realize how stupid they look and sound. Never let these people get to you. They win if they do.
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They are probably hiding behind their own insecurities and fears, afraid to reveal their true selves. Or they could just be assholes.  The man calls it like it is.... 
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In society, most will behave in a way to suit the environment and situation. It's partly to fit in, partly to keep themselves out of trouble. The anonymity of the internet allows them to show their real self without impunity. This happens here and all other forms of social media. If you think this is bad, try political forums. There is a good side to this, you are forewarned as to the true person's predisposition and can avoid as required.
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Because they are fakes and scammers, not real members of the BDSM Community.
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1. Many people forgot, or never learned, The Rules of Life, i.e., how to be polite, especially to a lady. 2. My late mother, the most Gracious Person in Town, taught me that "I've you can't say anything nice, don't say anything. 3. Many people - even those who are not anonymous and whom you thought were your friends - turn out to have Keyboard Courage - they will say things through FB or blogs that they would NEVER say to your face. 4. It is best to simply ignore the rude people. As Johnny Mercer once wrote: You got to ac-cent-tchu-ate the positive E-lim-i-nate the negative And latch on to the affirmative Don't mess with Mr. In-between
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Just keep reading the blogs. There are a few good people on here that have shared interests. The rest, just ignor. Give them a cyber kick in the rear end!!!....lol
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Why you ask? Usually it is because they do not like someone's blog. Sad, but true. 
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