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Yorksintoon 55M
22 posts
10/5/2022 11:12 am
How do you set up a CNC session?
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BDSMbedroomslave 46T
107 posts
10/5/2022 11:47 am

 Like any session really its all about the limits you agree to respect under the pretence. If its not mentioned, its game for this session.

IE If I told you that I wanted safe penetration, as you've mentioned, and that due to medical reasons I don't want permanent damage, again as mentioned, and that I need you to consider I need 'food breaks at regular intervals. If I don't mention that you cannot skulll fuck me for hours at a time, this is something you don't need consent for. If it comes to a food break, I've not said I'd like to be untied for this, so you can use the control aspect, that if I say anything other than Thank You Master when you feed me, that you continue to control me with the bondage, even to the point that you put the food in a bowl on the floor and leave me to it, or give me a 'time limit' to eat it.

I for example say to a prospective Dom, if its not a limit, you can do whatever you want with me. Then you can surprise me, such as, felling me on the stairs, handcuffing me and then hooding me, by not saying this is a limit, I've given you my consent..... so you don't need to ask for consent, to do that to me


Yorksintoon replies on 10/5/2022 3:28 pm:
Exactly, my friend.

FCMala_H_of_A F
115 posts
10/5/2022 5:50 pm

 Discussions before hand, of course. But also for myself, there is always a start trigger. In your example it was that she agreed if she came into your place she consented to what you had discussed. So crossing the threshold would be the trigger. Same goes for a stop - something that one of us does that tells the other, ok done now! Just like any other play with potential injury a safe word or action to indicate "I'm not just saying no, I'm really getting hurt and need to stop" is a definite. Other than that I think the fun of CNC is not having too many rules really - isn't it? I mean what would be the fun if you were narrowed down to just a few things to do?


Yorksintoon replies on 10/5/2022 10:28 pm:
Thank you for your comments. Of course the Stafeword was yet to come up. And CNC is about losing control, so giving away lots of scope to the attacker.

BDSMbedroomslave 46T
107 posts
10/6/2022 5:23 am

 "My Friend", you smoothy



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