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ProjectBree 46F
36 posts
12/12/2022 5:12 pm
Bree's thoughts, questions etc.

I often write in a journal.

I have been keeping one for over 30 years. I find if I talk to my journal I can put my thoughts together and share them. They are therapeutic

I'm going to work on an online journal for a week and see what my feelings and findings are after.

Wish me luck.

Routines,

Every one of us needs to make sense of our own lives. Who doesn't want purpose? I try to make sure everything I do has a purpose. I've always thought to get things out of the way so there are better things to be free to do. There are still sometimes I catch myself :whining; "But I don't wanna!"

How many people let alone submissives have found themselves tasked with a heavy load on a daily basis? How many compromises do we bargain for? How many times do we tell ourselves that we will move it off to another day? Pass up one task because we aren't ready or we forgot?

This. It's why I love routines. The routine is repetitive. It's consistent. It's
also dependent. Routines help us stay focused. I do a lot of daily journaling and writing thoughts down when I have them. Routines also help us be creative. Practicing the art of being able to move learning blocks around your day to create an environment that can be maintained. It's called being productive.

When you have learned how to maximize your time and effort through multitasking you become reliable. It becomes automatic.

Knowing what I'm supposed to be doing allows me to get the important things done without spending precious minutes deciding who, what, or where? I become more efficient. Routines also help me from too many things happening at once. They keep me centered. Razor sharp. Efficient.

This is my love for routines and why they sit well with me. Do you have a love for routines or structure? How about a desire for order?

Do you have any food for thought or a question?

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Arkangel_Fire 57M
1089 posts
12/13/2022 4:23 am

I consider myself a very structured person who has always made his surroundings work in harmony...
I keep an agenda, I don't write a diary, I schedule my days, I don't make a record of them... Over the years I learned that every time I need more personal time and enjoyment to sustain the structure of the day to day... Good post...


ProjectBree replies on 12/14/2022 11:24 am:
Do you think that: Your quote here "I keep an agenda, I don't write a diary, I schedule my days, I don't make a record of them... "Do you think that has to do with dynamics at all?"
The submissive writes the dominant schedules. The dominant sets an agenda whereas the submissive follows it.

I like to learn and would like your honest opinion. I am genuinely curious

Arkangel_Fire 57M
1089 posts
12/15/2022 4:14 am

My previous comment was just that, a comment, not a specific response to your dynamic.
I will just add, the routines are part of the structure and the structure is one of the bases of a D/s relationship, so each relationship is a world apart... Indoctrination is structure and routines, to affirm, strengthen, optimize and maintain focused on the submissive... It's not (everything), but I hope it helps him in something...


DancingDom 74M
22623 posts
12/27/2022 1:38 pm

Not sure how I missed your blog before. But welcome to blog land. Best to you. You write rather well and have good topics.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"



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