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Maintenance Spanking How many are familiar with the term maintenance spanking? How many of you adopt this preventive tool in your lifestyle routine? For those who have slinked in, I'm a submissive. This post will be from the view of one. I have never delivered a spanking to an adult before. My knowledge is from the spankee point of view. This post hopes to reach out to our<b> skilled </font></b>and amateur alike. Both the dominant and submissive points of view are welcome I've had maintenance spankings in my everyday life. I know how such a tool can instill a bit of good or bad emotions. Most of the population grew up with spanking being a punishment aid vs a corrections device. What are maintenance spankings? A maintenance spanking is a spank or session of spanks placed upon an individual that has agreed to or struck a trade for > Sessions These sessions range from daily to monthly or even longer. These spanks are not designed to be pleasurable or a fully-blown beating. They are the in-between Not hard enough to invoke punishment and not soft enough to be classified as a pleasure. The spanks are usually not full-blown punishment spankings, It's just enough of the sting to show who is in charge and to remind the spankee, why they should continue to behave. It's conditioning. We know that conditioning is the process of training or accustoming a person or animal to behave in a certain way or to accept certain circumstances. From,- this little's perspective My first maintenance spanking was delved out by my Aunt Linda. at age 8 you see things differently. I did not understand why I was spanked for things I had not done. What was the point of punishing when no crime was committed? We fast forward a bit to an angry moment and I am so upset I grab a cup to throw it and freeze. I freeze because my thoughts steer me to my Aunt Linda. The maintenance spanks. The punishment spanks. The conditioning. When you endure something long enough you start to become accustomed to its quirks and ticks. You know when something feels dangerous, harmful, joyful, or educational. My point is you become so used to something that you learn your likes and dislikes about it. What causes you to be uncomfortable in its presence, and even what makes you feel good feelings when in its presence. I like maintenance spankings. I'm not 100% sure why. They keep me focused, they make me stop and think. I put more thought into how I do things. I identify these feelings when I think of them. If you have ever taken the personality test you will be familiar with the personality type. For those who have not done yours, I encourage you to search for it and take the free online test. My personality type if you have read about it in my Bio is The Executive personality. I was blown away by the finding. I like structure, order, and everything has a place and purpose. Simple. Maintenance spanking taught me to slow down. To take a breath and understand what I'm doing. To focus. To learn what's important and drown all other things out. Do you have a maintenance spanking story you would like to share or a personal experience? I'm curious about what the thoughts and views are from opposite sides of the pond. I wonder if the 2 sides view it differently or not. I encourage you to think and share. Comments are open and public please play nice. Image was taken during a reconditioning task.  Verily Bree |
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In every D/s relationship, to a lesser or greater extent, spanking is present, how it is applied is a structure that the Dom imposes as he sees fit, maintenance routines help without a doubt, particularly a little brat, I need a spanking daily to tame their behavior...
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