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Let's Get Something Curved FIRST THINGS I’D LIKE TO SAY!! I am a chubbier girl so if you can’t hang with that and the self-consciousness that it brings, don’t bother. Calling me a fat bitch isn’t going to get you anywhere except laughed at as I show my friends what a piece of garbage you are. If you didn’t know, all girls do this with people (not just men) who think their insults matter. Now I am working on my gym activity but that does not mean I do not love or respect myself. If you cannot be encouraging, uplifting, or give me techniques/tips… back off. You are not my Dom… stop playing pretend. Now if you want to introduce yourself and be respectful while getting to know each other… please read on and let’s talk. But I have no time for wannabes, fakes, or men with a superiority complex. Just be real. I promise I won’t bite or judge or disrespect you, as long as you do the same in return… except maybe the biting. Just saying. Right now (August 2022), I do have a lot going on because I have goals, I want to accomplish in the next 6-12 months. Please know that I will not always be so busy so be patient. If I don’t respond in 2 minutes or if I am too exhausted to have that long winded conversation, forgive me. I currently work as a 911 dispatcher for 2 different counties and work 12-hour shifts that, once you add driving time, turns into 13–14-hour shifts. On top of that, I am helping my roommate/best friend tear down and rebuild her home while living in it. So, I cannot host for a while because I am literally in the middle of a rebuild and have no privacy for loud activities (and I am loud). Then on top of that, I will be buying a school bus or box truck soon and will be building my own tiny adventure home on wheels, which when it is done, I will be free to travel and go back to working 1 job or even a part time job which then leaves me plenty of time for activities. So bear with me. I am working hard now so I can live a simpler life dedicated to my future Dom later. ALRIGHT, LET’S MOVE ON TO THE 3 MAIN QUESTIONS THAT I (AND ANYBODY) GET ASKED MOST OFTEN: (If you ask me one of these questions, I will assume you didn’t read it and will just copy and paste it. If you didn’t want to take the time, then why should I? Now if you want me to elaborate, let me know. I am more than happy to go more in depth. 😊 (I’m not a bitch I swear. Just a tired hippie who is done answering the same 3 questions every single day from 20 different people who didn’t bother to read my profile.)) My ideal partner: My ideal partner is emotionally mature, honest, loyal, confident, protective, respectful, sensitive, and not-manipulative. Someone who is a good open communicator, open minded, encouraging, trustworthy, and passionate. Someone with a high sex drive and open to trying new things. Someone who has a dream of their own and is unwilling to let anything stand in their way. They are adaptive in that they are willing to adjust their expectations and timeline when needed but they keep to their path and are determined to meet their goals and make their dreams a reality. They truly know what they want in life. Someone who will inspire me to make my own dreams come true and believes in my abilities. They are musically inclined in some way and creative in others. Multilingual is a bonus. I want someone who will be my best friend and lover and with whom I can share everything with. I am looking for someone who has a good sense of humor as it is very important to me to laugh always. Life is too short to be so serious all the time. I also want someone who is mischievous in their own right. I am looking for someone who has their own life outside of the relationship. I am looking for a partner who is willing to try new things with me, be spontaneous, and maybe even travel. What I am looking for: I am looking for a connection as cheesy as that may sound. I’m not necessarily looking for marriage but instead someone who is as serious about us as I am. I am fine with something more casual at the moment as we continue to grow and learn about each other. Relationships are complex and require constant work, open communication, and willingness to compromise. I am looking for someone who ACTUALLY understands that and is willing to put in the effort to make things work through the hardships that may arise. If you cannot be truly open and honest about your expectations and what you are looking for or needing, it is likely that a partnership, even friendship, will not work out with me. I am not always the best at staying physically active so someone who can encourage me in the gym or to go on outside adventures would be appreciated as I do love camping, hiking, exploring, kayaking and rock climbing but I also have ADHD and will even forget to breathe and drink water. I am looking for someone who motivates me to be a more confident person and encourages me to pursue my dreams and goals. Most importantly, I am looking for a best friend. Someone who I can share everything with including all my secrets, thoughts and feelings without fear of judgement or rejection. I am looking for someone to match my hippie vibes. Be the yin to my yang so to speak. I want to love you as you love me. My Desires/Fantasies: I enjoy watching my partner pleasing another person. I like seeing what my partner does and I love seeing how much the person enjoys my partner’s talents. I also enjoy watching the things that turn my partner on (like certain kinds of porn, erotic pictures, erotic stories, etc.). And I enjoy being filmed or photographed nude or in the act… as long as I get a copy of everything. I enjoy being degraded and praised. I love being told I’m a “good girl” and I especially enjoy being told how dirty I am while performing my sexual submissive duties. I do enjoy the terms “slut”, “”, “cum dumpster”, etc. I’m not so responsive when called “bitch”. It just doesn’t do anything for me. But if you really want to get me flustered call me “kitten”, “pet”, or “little one”. I don’t have a pet play or DD/lg fetish, but I do love those names. I do enjoy giving oral, but I do require that you taste good and are hygienic. I also enjoy receiving oral; however, I will warn you I will not be completely satisfied by oral only. Gotta be creative. I also enjoy anal as long as I’m able to be properly prepped for it. *IFYKYK One of my biggest kinks is CNC which I understand can be “taboo” because of the subject matter. To explain further, I enjoy the feeling of being at the mercy of my Dom. That feeling of vulnerability and being taken advantage of is an immediate turn on for me. I enjoy the idea that I can be “taken” at any minute and at the whim of my Dom. Whatever he wants, whenever he wants, I am there to serve them completely and thoroughly (inside my limits and boundaries of course). I am a person that is so in control of her daily life that sometimes I forget that I don’t have to go through life alone. I was ingrained with the idea that I cannot allow myself to become a “burden” to anyone and that I need to hold my own. So having a Dom who understands that and quite literally takes that control away is deeply invigorating and satisfying. For a moment I don’t have control… over anything. I guess that’s why I’ve been a submissive for over 15 years. Haha No matter what scene is being played out, if I am blindfolded and tied down… talk about instantaneous wetness. The one and only time I ever managed to squirt was when I was tied down and unable to squirm away at any point in time. Also, the one and only time I ever had to use my safe word was when I was tied up and that was because I came so many times that it was getting seriously painful, and I was beginning to not have a good time anymore. I enjoy moderate impact play with a cat-o-nine, paddles, and hands. I do not like caning at all or belts. I’m not a masochist. I do enjoy hair pulling as long as you know how to do it right. I once had a Dom who enjoyed waxing/shaving and bathing me, that kind of care is very enjoyable to me. It made me feel taken care of, cherished and loved. I enjoy performing acts of service for my Dom. I enjoy cleaning, making the coffee, doing laundry and cooking. I love the “thank you little one”. I enjoy having duties. I enjoy being commanded, even though being commanded may have the instinctual reaction to brat, I do still enjoy being commanded. Commanded to kneel at his side at events (or at home), to service him while he watches television, to bend over on a lunch break, to cum on command. I enjoy being put in my place like that. I generally won’t instinctually do anything sexual until I am commanded or taken. It is something I want to work on definitely. I enjoy having to wear a plug in public while running errands. The secrecy is fun at the same time that it is giving me the sense of being vulnerable. As a warning, I am a shy person when I first meet someone face to face. It is a confidence that I lack and that I would like to work on. I know a lot of people are against drugs and alcohol use while meeting for the first time or during a scene and while I agree to a degree (especially if it’s hard drugs stronger than marijuana or if it is complete intoxication) I think for some people, like me, a shot of whiskey or a joint helps me relax and just exist in the moment. It doesn’t make me do things I will regret later by any means. I have anxiety and can get seriously stuck in my own head and nervous, so it helps me literally enjoy my time way more plus it increases my sensitivity. The last thing I will say for now is that I thoroughly enjoy the feeling of being slowly stretched open either with hands or devices. Again, like so many other things I enjoy, it is the state of being so vulnerable that I love. Now I say these things to say this… I enjoy these things while IN A partnership. Outside of a partnership, you have no right to treat me in such a way. My servitude and submission are earned over a period of time in which we have hung out (both non-sexually as well as sexually) in person and have had long conversations about goals and expectations. It requires getting to know each other for more than 3 days of “hey how are you.” It requires you showing me the respect I deserve and showing you can hold a conversation beyond just sex. Now if all you want is a sexy texting session or FWB, that’s perfectly fine. I’m okay with that, just say so. Just be honest and upfront with me. There is no shame or judgement. When I was a cab/Lyft driver I had 1 requirement in my car that was beyond the usual rules and safety regulations, and I carry it even now… If you are not the person I’m fucking… to degrade me, disrespect me, and treat me like dirt… you’re going to have to pay me legit money for it. I’m not kidding. Either you pay your way, or you are blocked for being disrespectful. I know my worth and I won’t make an exception even if you are conventionally attractive. If you pay the fee, you can be as verbally abusive as you want to me. If you want me to just be silent and take it… there’s a fee. If you want me to participate… there’s a fee. If you want me to degrade you… there is a fee. If you just need someone anonymous to vent to and then be on your way… there’s a fee. Nothing in life is free… so why would I accept your unsolicited abuse for free? So, keep it respectful. I’m not looking for a one-night stand. I’m not a drum you bang one time. I am open to FWB as long as there is an ACTUAL friendship there… hence why it’s called FRIENDS With Benefits. But ultimately, I want to find my person (or persons… I enjoyed my poly-ships that I was in as well). And I am patient, I can wait. I am not desperate to belong, I am perfectly content being by myself. So, keep that in mind before you message me. And if you make it clear you did not read a single thing on my profile… I’m just going to start deleting your messages since that truly is a sign of disrespect for my boundaries if you don’t even care enough to read a simple profile. I hate to be so harsh, but I must draw a line. IF YOU HAVE GOTTEN THIS FAR, I APPRECIATE YOU! SO HERE ARE SOME QUESTIONS FOR TO GET THE CONVERSATION GOING: What do you love about life? Where do you want to be in 5 years? What was the last lie you told? Who is your celebrity crush? What is the best compliment you ever received? What is a compliment you wish you received more of? What are the top 3 things that stress you out? What kinds of scenes turns you on? What characteristics do you find sexy in a submissive? What characteristics are a buzz kill for you? What characteristics best describe your Dominant side? What experience do you have in power exchange? What gets you off about being a Dominant? What are some things you haven’t tried in life that you would like to? (Not limited to in the bedroom) |
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1 post 6/6/2023 3:16 am |
WOW, like the vibe, the maturity as well as the content of your post. Too bad you've not been on alt for a while now.
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Good to see you back on alt. The chemistry you are looking for is quite in line with that alchemy I have been wanting to find as well. The Yin to Yang connection you speak of, as well as your deeper desires are just what the doctor ordered. Bonus points for actually being not very far away. Message me in my blog and let us see what chemistry bubbles up. If you'd like to banter off site, usually I use the g chat, so just let me know how to reach you. Hope to hear from you soon.
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