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Today is Sad Today I am very very sad. I hurt a dear friend yesterday and there aren't enough I'm sorry's in the universe. I didn't set out to. I was being selfish and feeling sorry for myself and I didn't think things through before I opened my big mouth. I need to remember sometimes it's better to just shut up and listen. I am so very very sorry and the hurt just won't go away. I think being mad at yourself is the absolute worst feeling. Why am I posting this? Because my dear friend isn't talking to me today and I have no one else to talk to. I deserve every bit of it too. |
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Thank you all for your posts and advice! I agree and as a matter of fact, I am forgiven now and so we move forward. He is a very special friend and that is one of many things I love about him, his intelligence. I did learn from this and I it won't happen again. I made that promise to him and to myself and I mean to keep it.
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Things happen fast in real time. I've been there myself. Let time pass, things will start to come around.
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sorry hopefully everything will be ok w lil time to let things simmer then in a day or so reach out explain your side & apologize...if they’re really a good friend all will be forgiven!
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U will be ok it takes time to acknowledge the pain u think is the worst but the HARDEST THING IS TO REMIND WHO U HURT U ARE SORRY ...THEN...if the person u think is important to you as u feel.....will forgive since its something you said.....think about what i said!
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Anger should be a short term thing.
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3/15/2023 7:35 pm |
Somethings you say and do in life can't be taken back. I have a long list that I've kicked to the gutter. That's not to say im without forgiveness, but at some point you have to get off the merry-go-round. After all what's the point in doing the same things over and over. Maybe they will forgive you, maybe they won't. Either way the die is cast and at this point there's no reason to keep going over things in your mind. Nothing is going to change by reliving things. c'est la vie. I think I heard someone say that every night when I was in Paris. If I wouldn't have had a family emergency I'd probably still be there. Maybe I'll head back in April for a while. It's a whole different world over there. I don't speak a lot of French, but I always kiss that way. Yourself is always the hardest one to forgive. Immerse yourself into something like music.
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The words we say can never be taken back. They will often haunt us more than the person to which they are directed. Be open and honest to your friend and sincere, and ask for their forgiveness.
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If she is truly your friend, she will forgive you ... when she's ready. Wait for it. You're done beating yourself up. Just be her friend and wait.
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Being mad at yourself is appropriate to a degree. But there will come a point you will need to forgive yourself and grow beyond the anger. I know you will because you are showing you still care about your friend. That's a good thing.
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