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cuckoldresswife 64F
30 posts
3/18/2023 7:47 am
is my username misleading?


I may have picked a misleading username (cuckoldresswife)...

I cuckold my husband in the sense that I fuck other men, but I do not humiliate him or make him feel 'inadequate' because he is not.  He enjoys seeing me with other men and I have to admit I enjoy fucking a variety of cocks.  Hubby is also a very good lover, has a slightly 'bigger than average' cock, and when other cocks are not available satisfies me just fine...

He is not gay or even bi, and even though he does enjoy going down on me after another man has filled me with his cum, he does not lick or suck the other man's cock afterwards.  It is not something either of us feels the need to see or do.

I understand this arrangement does not fit exactly into a cuckold arrangement because I do not fuck other men just because I want to but also because hubby enjoys it.  Would the term 'hotwife' better describe our situation?

Please weigh in on this - I may need to change my screen name...

Karen

MalePatient3 69M
42 posts
3/18/2023 7:59 am

Hi Karen.. I think the name is fine. Also I don't think there should be hard and fast rules on what cuckolding is. You are definitely into a form of cuckolding which you both enjoy, so keep the name, It is very appropriate.


cuckoldresswife replies on 3/18/2023 8:02 am:
Thank You for commenting.
The reason I asked is because I get guys chatting with me that imply (or think) that I humiliate my hubby when I fuck other men in front of him but that is not true...
When I look at hubby as another man is fucking me hard and deep and I am in the throes of passion, we look at each other with love and appreciation for each other and what we have...
Karen

rydermantel 69M
25398 posts
3/18/2023 8:14 am

Misleading? I can't even pronounce it. No pun intended. So the name is more than a name? Is it supposed to indicate a persuasion or something else?


Plzrmeister 67M  
10457 posts
3/18/2023 8:32 am

Perhaps a better route would be to expand your profile verbiage to better explain the dynamic you and your husband have? Unfortunately, that only works for those able to access profiles, and those able to 'comprehend' what they read.

Your intro. title is "Hubby is a cuck that I fuck around..... Perhaps change this verbiage more towards a 'hotwife' explanation. You can further expand on the 'hotwife' aspect in the status box of your profile.

If you try to change your username, you might regret it as ALT.com is one fucked up site and they rarely get anything right without causing you a lot of grief.

Much simpler to just create another profile entirely ......

Make Women Female Again


likeithot19 62M
6061 posts
3/18/2023 8:41 am

If it bothers you, do what does not.. Do not thnk anyone else cares one way or the other
cheers1


janey_robbins 65T  
287 posts
3/18/2023 8:42 am

I think it's fine. Also I think your husband is a luck man; on one level he has his own private porn star


cuckoldresswife replies on 3/18/2023 9:44 am:
A pornstar? Me??? That may just be the nicest compliment I have ever gotten... TY
Karen

boh99 68M
3154 posts
3/18/2023 8:44 am

seems good to me. Sounds like you two have an arrangement that suits each other.


HardPaul99 60M
132 posts
3/18/2023 9:12 am

Karen....we are all different and all respond to other stimuli and kinks. There is no "one size fits all" in this lifestyle. The nice thing with you is that you are very upfront about your needs and how you interact with the presence of your husband as other men fuck you. You are very genuine which is better than a profile name any day.
No matter what profile name you had, readers will always misinterpret what you realy want.
Paul


jaykay48 75M
11457 posts
3/18/2023 9:51 am

The name is fine. But, that being said, if you want to imply that your husband is a willing, enthusiastic part of your sessions (watching and even interacting with you--which is incredibly hot, btw) since cuckolding often includes the humiliate-husband facet, just include descriptions of how you and hubby get aroused together when you fuck other men. (There are video porn sites that are called Cuckold Kiss or Cuckold eye contact vids that show wives being fucked while kissing their husbands or just staring into their eyes while being pleasured by another. If I had that type of relationship, I definitely wouldn't want to be humiliated. janey_robbins is very correct. Your husband is very lucky to have you.


Everythingsup 54M
574 posts
3/18/2023 1:56 pm

It matters not what others think. Be yourself always,live to your standard not others have fun and enjoy yourself you have a good life


NoNonsense_Dom 70M  
1538 posts
3/18/2023 2:43 pm

Hi Karen. I don't think the profile name is totally accurate because in all reality, you are not cuckolding hubby. The thing is though that when I first read your profile there was some ambiguity about the way your relationship worked, BUT the way you explained things in this post sets my mind totally straight. You could leave your profile name the way it is, but copy what you have written above into the beginning of your profile and it would leave no doubt as to what you are both into. That is of course, if the fuckers actually read your profile.


cuckoldresswife replies on 3/21/2023 3:53 pm:
No it was not you who was rude my dear. My problem was/is that when I chat with somebody they automatically assume that I belittle my husband by seeing other men... The fact is he gets off on it at least as much as I do and not because it makes him feel like less of a man. He likes watching me being brought to orgasm over and over and over - As a matter of fact, I like it too LOL

3chance 49M
57 posts
3/19/2023 5:06 am

I like it. For me a name is foreplay.


NoNonsense_Dom 70M  
1538 posts
3/22/2023 1:02 am

Karen, not that I have a sub at the moment, but I like to share and see them experiencing different aspects, different uses and different cocks, so I am a bit like your hubby in that respect. We all get pleasure in different ways, and I respect the way you and your hubby play.


newdoor2020 52M
8 posts
4/15/2023 9:53 pm

I think it is not misleading. A cuckold wife doesnt have to humiliate her husband



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